<p>Floridadad, in California, “ending up” at a state university isn’t a second-rate choice.</p>
<p>In the reach category, I would add Harvey Mudd due to its proximity and connections with JPL.</p>
<p>Something to look into - when my son’s friend was applying to aero/astro programs, UIUC (University of Illinois) offered her a significant merit scholarship. </p>
<p>Niklas, I’m so sorry that you’re not getting the kudos from your parents, but I’m sure that they’re incredibly proud of you. They’re just so worried/obsessed about your twin that it hasn’t occurred to them that you need some attention as well. Don’t let it get you down for any length of time but keep on following your dream.</p>