<p>Sally Congratulations to your D on the accolades!</p>
<p>BHM, you are an amazing wealth of info! Thank you for finding and sharing! Funny that I just mentioned New College and how my D crossed it off her list for the no grade policy, then we had a long discussion last night. She is feeling really stressed (I hadn’t fully realized how that stress they feel can be compounded by the stress all their friends are going through too…so trying to deal with their own stress and friends’ stresses…It’s a lot.) Anyway, she says that my reminders to study for the SAT/ACT stress her out and she’d prefer to take the approach of just taking the tests and see how she does, then, if she’s not happy with that score, plan to study and retake later. I had hoped she’d do the one and done thing…which could happen, but if that’s her plan, I told her I’d back off…and she said she is just so over the competitiveness and trying to get the best scores/grades. She want to find a college where it’s all about learning, and not about specific goals like grades. She says New College may just be back on the list. </p>
<p>Jazzland…I think it was you who posted about the stolen laptop…if this was an isolated incient and she’s not typically irresponsible, I would consider it lesson learned and move on…and go ahead and do anything you were already going to do for her (treadmill, trip, etc)…this is such a stressfull time, I’d err on the side of support.</p>
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