Parents of the HS Class of 2016 (Part 1)

My son is currently ranked 4 out of 462 , but only Val and Sal have been recognized at graduation in the past. There has been talk about recognizing top 12, but nothing is confirmed. They announce Val and Sal after exams later this month. The top 12 juniors are recognized as junior marshals that help with graduation, so he participated in that last year. His rank made him eligible for some great state scholarships so we are grateful. They also give medals for cum, magna cum and summa cum laude. I like how your school identifies academic achievement @LKnomad .

On another note, do any of your schools offer “letters” for academic clubs or orchestra? It has been a thorn in my son’s side that his school only offers letters for athletics , chorus and band. They’ve been trying to get recognition for academic team, speech and debate, science team and orchestra ( all of these teams compete and represent the school ) and have been unsuccessful. Our principal has only been at our high school for a year, so hopefully they’ll be some consideration for changes.

@carolinamom2boys your DH’s assumption that there would be extra dorm space made me laugh. Most universities cannot accommodate all of their current students let alone a group of admitted students. If they can, they are missing out on some significant revenue.

DS received another acceptance today. This one is a match school that could become a safety with merit. It is the perfect size but a bit farther from home than the others. We won’t have notice of merit for 2 more weeks so it stays in the running for now. I agree with you @Almondjoy1. I would love to always get all the data at once.

@carolinamom2boys - yes, our high school gives students letter jackets + letters for advancing in academic competitions. It is nice for students to be recognized for their hard work.

@Cheeringsection Congrats to your son. Lots of choices to make. I think my sons and I actually hurt my husband 's feelings a little bit when we chuckled at his comment.

Congrats @Almondjoy1 @Cheeringsection <:-P

@carolinamom2boys oh no! Do not tell him I also laughed then. X_X

We have letters for academics, music (band/choir), and sports. We don’t even HAVE Orchestra! And for some reason, the criteria to letter in band are really hard, while choir is really easy. Bugs my band kids.

My D’s school ranks. The top 10 sit in the front row, in numerical order, following by the next 25 kids. All 35 kids get medals.

Carolinamom2boys - my D’s school gives letters for musical theater, band and orchestra, and sports. Nothing, unfortunately, for academic ECs.

@carolinamom2boys, the school where D16 takes orchestra offers letters for that activity.

Congratulations @Almondjoy1 and @Cheeringsection !

The only letters are at school are for varsity sports. I’ve never heard of letters for music or academics but it would make sense.

Congratulations @Cheeringsection and @Almondjoy1

At our school it is limited who is recognized. Only the person with the highest gpa is recognized as Val and goes out to the .0001place. It is not determined until final grades are in. Some years there are more than one. If there is only one Val then Sal(s) are recognized Sal’s have the second highest gpa. We don’t recognize Val and Sal as a percentage ranking in the class.I have been to graduations where anyone over something like a 4.5 is a Val, over 4.25 is Sal etc
and all Val’s speak at graduation. As of right now it looks like 1 Val and 3 Sal’s. At the beginning of the year I thought we were going to have 6 Sal’s all with the same exact gpa.

@carolinamom2boys, my school recognizes academics, orchestra and athletics.

@Cheeringsection & @Almondjoy1 congratulations.

Our school doesn’t rank, and they don’t even tell what decile, though I believe it is calculated internally in Guidance (?). No varsity letters/etc. for non-sports. However when I was in HS in the dark ages, in Illinois, the Chess team petitioned and won the right to get varsity letters. The Math team, on which I served, did not. :wink:

I did request, and got, permission for congratulations and “good luck” for the Math, Science, etc. Teams on the overhead announcements with the sports, in their season for meets.

@carolinamom2boys I was digging around in my old files and ran into an envelope that had a high school “letter” in it that I had earned – apparently I never took it out of the envelope! Honestly do not remember what it was for, but maybe band? At my kid’s school they might give letters for band or academics but I wouldn’t know. Superlatives, though there may be some, are not too big a thing. Nor is there any recognition (publicly) for vals or sals. I think they are a doing a little better to recognize academic achievers but we are still expecting that college is where our kids will shine.

There’s no varsity letters at my school for sports let alone anything else. Not actual physical ones anyway. @fretfulmother your story reminds me of a story my father always tells. When he was a senior in high school he was in charge of the marquee sign(why I don’t know) and when they announced the captions of the cheerleading squad for the next year, he put a congratulatory message on the marquee which he then got in trouble for “for trying to harness the attention of younger females”. Seriously- he actually knew the girls who thanked him for it.

I attended the graduation of the daughter of a very good friend 2 years ago (a huge high school). They had 24 valedictorians. I struggled with that
it just seems to diminish the honor quite a bit. Or maybe it allowed the maximum amount of students to list “valedictorian” on their college apps? I suspect that all students with a 4.0 received the honor.

Is there room for another stalker?! D16 applied to 10 schools, deferred from one scea and waiting for the next round of EA decisions coming up within the next couple of weeks. Then the long wait till April for the rest. So stressful that she only applied to one safe school (state) and the rest are all selective. She is NMF so we know the state will be free but she really wants to go OOS. Unfortunately we don’t qualify for aid so it’s a big nut we have to cough up. I just want to know where she’s going! April can’t come soon enough, but then that means she’s closer to leaving. So sad

Welcome @greeny8

Welcome @greeny8 ! Please do hang out with us while you wait.