Parents of the HS Class of 2016 (Part 1)

Thank you @sseamom That means a lot to me.

@sophmore1 congratulations on the outside scholarships! Care to tell us more about it? How many outside scholarships is she applying to?

I’ve been trying to figure out the balance in the effort required for scholarship applications and the potential reward.

Here’s our current our list:

two fastweb type scholarships (not expecting much she knows already she didn’t get one of the two)
employee scholarship offer by DH’s work (good chance)
local community involvement scholarship (50/50 chance)
a national scholarship related to her major (good chance)
she was nominated by our church for a scholarship for graduating seniors in our region (it was huge surprise and an honor to be nominated!)
her German teacher also nominated for a language scholarship from his professional organization. (no idea what the chance of this is)
a scholarship from our credit union (good chance)
a scholarship from the local woman’s club (long shot but easy app)
a scholarship from the local Girl Scouts (good chance)
a scholarship from our local utility company (long shot but $$)
a state specific scholarship loosely tied to her major (long shot but $$$) actually not sure if this one is being offered this year

From OU, in addition to their National Merit scholarship:
she was invited to apply for their Global Engagement Fellowship
and she auditioned for a scholarship for her instrument

I don’t think we’ll hear about any of these scholarships until March at the earliest and some don’t have deadlines until May. Her school keeps a list of local scholarships but that won’t be out until early March and apps are due back the end of March. I don’t think she’ll qualify for any of those though.

It’s been a real challenge to identify scholarships that she qualifies for, we don’t live in the school district where she attends school some local scholarship require you to live in that school district and others require you to attend the local high school. She’s not a minority, disabled, child of a veteran, homeless, nor does she qualify for free or reduced school lunch or need based FA. Texas offers some great grants but they can be only used in state and she’s going OOS.

I hope everyone will post a list of what outside scholarship their kids got, maybe at the end of May? I’d love to see what kind of scholarships kids are really getting outside our area.

What the…!?
D16 is completing her housing application and the meal plan is crazy. For one academic year, the meal plan is $4,300 and the school says that covers 14 meals per week in the dining hall (no ā€œdining dollarsā€ for the snack her). That’s not even three meals a day M-F with at least two brunches and two dinners on Saturday and Sunday. I know this school is a suitcase college, but how is a kid supposed to live on an average of a meal and a half a day?! This is for a 17-week semester. Something is whack. This is upsetting to me as we make one of our first concrete moves toward setting up D16 at her chosen college. This can’t be right.

D14 signed up for ā€œunlimited mealsā€ her first semester because she didn’t want to stress about where her next meal was coming from. She quickly learned that that was way too much. She goes to Walmart a few times a semester and gets yogurt, instant oatmeal, etc. and has that in her dorm in the mornings…she also is able to take a piece of fruit or small item out of the dining hall, and she does that daily to supplement her ā€œbreakfastā€ stash in the dorm. Once in awhile she buys more when she is out and about on campus in the mornings, but that is just occasionally…and what she spends is a whole lot less than if she had the upgraded meal plan. She also finds that since she has been there, made friends, some of which are off campus…she eats with them at times for meals on the weekends, helps cook at their house/apt. So…@dyiu13…if the meal plan isn’t enough…she can purchase a la carte, shop and keep a stash of yogurt, granola bars, fruit, etc…and she will probably save money in the long run vs. expensive ā€œall you can eatā€ meal plan.

I just put housing deposit for USC. We are still waiting for results from many schools, but it is just $45 and housing priority goes by application date.

I agree that very few actually eat breakfast in the dining hall in college. so sounds like lunch and dinner are covered daily. However, doing the math 4300/2/17/14=$9 per meal. Seems like a lot to me, but maybe that is the going rate? Pretty sure she can get some breakfast cereal for cheaper than that!

In other news, filed the PROFILE here. Hopefully the last money I’ll give to College Board for a while.

@dyiu13 At my S14’s school, the dorm meal plans are ~$2,500 each term. One chooses 14 meals + $20/week food debit, or 10 meals + $40/week food debit. Almost everyone gets the 10 meal plan because that is the most flexible (food debit is used at the many eateries/snack machines/coffee shops, lots of people want to order pizza or leave campus for weekend dinners). My S very rarely woke up for breakfast and bought cereal and fruit to keep in his room. He also ate a lot of peanut butter sandwiches. He had hundreds in food debit at the end that he used to purchase canned goods for food bank donation; this was not unusual. Given the cheaper price for the meal plan at your D16s school, maybe the expectation is that parents or jobs provide the additional cash for groceries and meals not at the cafeterias.

@dyiu13 I hear ya. It reminds me of concessions at the movie theater. Popcorn, soda, and a candy? $20 please. Boo!

As I’m comparison shopping among schools, I’ve noticed many use Sodexo for dining services, but the same plan at different schools can vary by over $1000. Obviously, some colleges are better at negotiating contracts than others.

That does seem like a lot for a few meals. D’s schools mostly offer 19 meals on the ā€œunlimitedā€ plan. I think that’s a nod to the fact that many kids sleep in on weekends. I haven’t seen any that top out at 14. All of them offer ā€œdining dollarsā€ of some kind as well. You’re D will def. need to supplement with other food. And in addition to that hefty fee! So sorry about that!

Some of D’s schools require freshmen to have a certain plan, but after that they can get as large or small a plan as they want. Without a real kitchen, though, I’d want at least 2 meals a day though.

@LKnomad & @CAMidwestMom Hope your kids feel better soon.

@Booajo If anyone does the math for room or board (ie: divides it to figure the daily cost or per meal cost)…the numbers are staggering…it is just the cost of living on campus!

The unfortunate thing is that with some schools the R&B total is less than 9K and at other schools R&B tops out around 15K…and what the student gets is pretty similar.

I think we’re looking at over 11K for S16 at Temple. I don’t think that’s too bad for an urban university in that part of the country. A coworker’s son is at St. John’s, and they’re paying a lot more than that.

@dyiu13 that looks similar to OU’s meal plan

2015-2016 Meal Plan Rates
Freshman Meal Plans - $2,134 per semester
There are five basic freshman meal plans. Enhanced meal plans may be purchased for an additional cost.

15 Meals/Week
12 Meals/Week & 300 Meal Plan Points/Semester
10 Meals/Week & 450 Meal Plan Points/Semester
8 Meals/Week & 600 Meal Plan Points/Semester
6 Meals/Week & 750 Meal Plan Points/Semester

D will have a mini fridge, microwave and electric tea kettle in the dorm. We plan to send her with some oatmeal, tea, granola, soup, mac and cheese… We are going to start with the 12 meal a week plan. The main cafeteria on campus is amazing like a huge mall food court and everything is all you can eat, they even have an all you can eat chick-fil-a and the salad bar there is the best I’ve ever seen! They have signs posted about what you can take out to go (x pieces of fruits, one smoothie…) so they can take some food out for snacks.

As a dorming student, she needs 3 meals a day, M-F, and brunch with dinner on Saturdays and Sundays. There apparently isn’t even a option for this. I’m contacting Food Service to figure it out. Something seems wrong.

D will be a dorming student and I know there is no way she is going to eat three meals a day in the cafe. OU is not a suitcase college, ALL Freshman live in the dorms and I’ve posted their freshman meal plans. It’s similar to other schools we looked at but OU has the best food;-)

From DD experience at summer program I would probably buy the least expensive plan. Cafeteria food is cafeteria food, so on weekends they normally were going out. Also knowing my child, she often did not wake up early enough for breakfast, at least on weekends.

Most of our schools require unlimited meal plan as Freshman.

One reason this meal plan disappoints me, as far as I understand the plan, is that dorming students then don’t sit with each other at least 3 times a day. I didn’t realize how much meal plans have changed since when I was eating mastadon in the dining hall…

At my daughter’s university a similar meal plan costs $6000 per year. We take the unlimited because it is only $250 more per year.

Another reason the cost of meal plans is going up is because the meal plans are subsidizing capital improvements.

http://www.nytimes.com/2015/12/06/us/meal-plan-costs-tick-upward-as-students-pay-for-more-than-food.html

ā€œYet the particulars of the contracts reveal that much of the meal plan cost does not go for an individual’s food. Colleges use the money to shore up their balance sheets, create academic programs and scholarships, fund special ā€œtraining tablesā€ to feed athletes, and pay for meals for prospective students touring campus.ā€