D & H have returned from their spring break travels and here’s what they found:
Univ of Puget Sound - They had attended a local event for this one in the fall and it had been the turning point for H to say OK yes I see that an LAC-style school is really probably a good fit for D. They both liked it going in to this visit. But coming away from the visit they both felt kinda lukewarm about it. They liked the area, they thought the campus was very pretty and well laid out, the housing seemed very nice, academic offerings seemed perfectly reasonable and solid, but they just, for whatever reason, didn’t feel a connection. D said she definitely wants to apply, but it just isn’t her top choice. Which is fair since I don’t really even want her to have a top choice right now. 
Western Washington University - This was the only one I needed her to like, even a little bit. It’s her financial safety. It’s much bigger than she wants for a school, but it has an honors program that I think she could get into. Again she didn’t love it, but she did like it enough that it stays on the list and can be her financial safety! She LOVED the honors dorm, and felt that she would have to do honors to be happy there, because she pretty much hated the regular dorm they saw. They were able to meet with the honors program director and have lunch with some honors students. She is generally an introvert and not great in those situations but she said it was fine. H really liked it because it was a larger school they had a lot of choices for academic programs, something he thinks is important for someone as committed to undecided as D. They both felt the smaller community of the honors program would be a good fit for D. The campus itself was described to me as quite nice, bigger than the others (of course) but a nice mix of older and newer buildings. The area seemed pretty good with an apparent divide between Bellingham (where you go to eat with your friends $) and Fairhaven (where you go with your parents $$). D & H stayed in Fairhaven and said it was very nice.
University of Denver - This one’s a wild card. D has been strangely enamored by it, and H reported shortly after their visit that she had really liked it. They apparently had a great tour guide, which I am learning makes ALL the difference. So much so, that my D, who does not ski, completely overlooked all the obvious markers during the info session and tour that said “kids who go here like to ski”. Which is not to say that you cannot be happy there if you don’t ski, but she just shrugged that whole aspect of the culture off, and it surprised me. She wasn’t wowed by the dorms, but again, kinda shrugged that off! I think my H was wondering what magic elixir they had put in the water… but, further reflection by her has brought it down to earth a bit. She told me this morning she thinks she likes the idea of it probably more than she would actually like going there. Definitely stays on the list. Still a wild card.
That’s probably it for OOS visits for us before admissions results come in. We’ll do closer to home visits as we can one at a time. My main worry now is that her financial safety is also the farthest from home! :-t My kid is a big homebody, and I have a feeling the closer in schools are going to rise in the ranks. I would love to have one I could bank on, though based on info from the fabulous 2017 parents I do feel pretty comfortable with at least one school providing enough merit to be very solid for her. Then the other half of me chimes in with, unless it’s guaranteed it’s not guaranteed! So I think we will have to decide whether that leap of faith is one we can take.
Belated welcome to all the new parents who have recently delurked! It’s so great to see this thread coming to life! >:D<