Parents of the HS Class of 2019 - 3.0 to 3.4 GPA

@carolinamom2boys Congrats!

@bjscheel she already has smart black pants and a couple of blouses for mock trial, so to add to that she got a lovely red wool blazer and a pair of smart but flat-so-comfortable black leather shoes (she’s tall so gets away with flats!)

Yeah we’re in NorCal so our winter weather is not really an issue (though for us it’s still really cold, lol!)

@Britmom5 yes that’s what my husband is saying
 she’s just helping us get ready for when she’s gone 


@SJ2727 , my DD is looking for some comfortable dress shoes (flat) for a scholarship interview. Can you share the brand name? ( PS we are in Norcal too)

@Ranipetgirl , they are Halogen.

I’m at home under the weather thinking of what we need too!

Scholarship dinner dress with shoes that are not boots, but it will be cold. I have no clue and Twin A loathes shopping. Two prom dresses, and Twin B has zero clothes that fit b/c she is short and lost 15 pounds. I don’t even know where to begin! Twin A said everything I pick out looks like ‘MOM’ clothing.

Thank you @SJ2727

@TwinMom2023 you may want to look at The Loft for interview clothes. They have petites. I like Ann Klein shoes. She has nice flats.

Congrats @carolinamom2boys !

@TwinMom2023 I feel you. DD needed a black dress for Jazz Choir. We bought one last year that she used. I didn’t like the short length so I wanted another for this year (she’s 5’1"- no dresses should be too short on her yet here we are). Looked in so many places and they were wrong size, too skimpy, not bra friendly, fabric too thin, too matronly, and so on. She got tired of looking. A plain black dress shouldn’t be that hard! She also wanted a red one for speech. Finally last week I found a style on Amazon she agreed to and we bought both colors. She used the black one Saturday. The red one has an awkward line over the bust from the lining so I’m working up the courage to modify it. Feels like no matter how full her closet is, we are always still lacking in the “right” dressy clothes.

Prom is covered though, we had success buying online, just needs hemmed- of course.

@bjscheel I hear your pain, just from the other end—your daughter’s 5’1", mine’s a bit under 6’0". Why clothing manufacturers can’t figure out there’s a pretty decent-sized number of women out there who don’t fall into the 5’6"±2" range, I don’t understand


Ahh, dress shopping for a girl. So glad I don’t have to worry about that this year for prom since I have a boy this time around! It was a quite challenging for D17 as she doesn’t really have a waist. While she ended up with a pretty dress, it was not flattering (she wouldn’t listen to me) and made her look very top heavy even though she does not have a large chest. Thankfully it will be easier just worrying about a tux this time around.

I just had the pleasure of dress shopping with my 13 y/o dd. Such a hard age to buy for as it’s an in-between age. Everything is either too juvenile or too vavavoom! Though she is not super tall, she’s 5’5" but has really long legs which does not make it easy to find a dress that doesn’t look too short. Somehow we really lucked out and found an age appropriate dress at Macy’s.

Bought plane tix for admitted students day at the end of March. I really need it to not snow as I don’t drive in snow - ever. I’m excited and also nervous about the reality that this will be her home for four years. Ack!

@TwinMom2023, does the school provide transportation from and to the airport for admitted students day(s)? Some schools do.

@rosered55 I don’t think so, but it’s a good idea to check! Thanks.

@TwinMom2023 I hear you on the not wanting to drive in snow. I’m totally inexperienced at it and intimidated by it. We’re visiting Hope College in Holland, Michigan at the end of the month for their Fly-In Weekend and they are providing shuttles to and from the airport within certain defined time frames, so we scheduled our flights to work with those. Definitely worth checking with the college.

@corinthian we need a thread for parents of kids going to college in cold climates. I’m hoping to keep the ‘flying home nightmares due to weather’ at a minimum.

Been forever since I’ve been on here, busy busy, busy!

@Corinthian Glad to see Hope is still on the table for you! We are driving distance so we will be visiting mid-March. Combining it with Kzoo admitted student weekend so killing 2 birds. Once these visits are done it’s time to start really getting down to the nitty-gritty. She has a clear front runner but they are the most expensive option at the moment. Her second choice is a place we both love, she would be happy to go and is affordable, but feels like she might be “settling” since she fell in love with her first choice. Gentle discussions about money, major and happiness are currently on-going. Hoping these 2 visits start narrowing the field so we can finally pay a deposit and get on with life!

@corinthian, or flying home to/through cold climates. My D19 is by now clearly going to be in college in a warm-to-hot area (whichever school she picks), but coming home, she’s flying through MSP, Denver, Chicago, or (maybe) Seattle, so


I haven’t checked in for a while. Glad to see so much good news for many.

This is my 3rd go around. Dealing with flights South, I can tell you, routing thru Chicago was never an issue. They are used to it and well prepared. Flying out of Birmingham and Atlanta
There were issues. My son learned how to navigate, and sleep, at airports. We often opted for Southwest Airlines with connections and multiple flights to our home center over direct flights that were only once a day. SW doesn’t charge for changing flights. Worked well for us.

Now is a great time to look at the various airlines and number of flights. Pick your favorite airline and consider a credit card from that airline for the flight credits many offer for signing up.

DDs mid-term grades are out and her overall GPA increased. At least two of the colleges are willing to re-evaluate merit based upon this and her Dec ACT score increase. Even though we are still awaiting 2 more decisions, her mind is set on U of Lynchburg.

Hi @Longhaul That is great advice. We are flying SW to admitted students day and I was thinking a credit card might be the way to go. I never thought about the multiple legs though and I’m sure just that piece of information will come into play. She’ll be changing planes at BWI so that will be dicey.

Congrats to your DD on grades and improved ACT. Always nice to have more aid.

Growing up in FLA the common joke was flying to Heaven or Hell, you’d be changing planes in Atlanta - with a delay. LOL.