Well, C25 and I took off at 11pm on Thursday, flew “baby’s first red eye”, had “baby’s first breakfast burrito” in DTW, got into ROC at 9:20, drove around a bit and noted the giant piles of snow in every large parking lot, despite the day seeming pretty clear and warm. Did the campus tour of RIT at 2pm, dorm tour at 3:30, “exit through the gift shop with the 10% coupon only good today!”, and the kid wanted a few pieces of swag because they were pretty dang happy and ready to commit. Then we went over to my aunt’s house where we were going to sleep, and she had arranged for there to be pizza & wings and whoever could come over to do so, and see me and re-meet C25, and the kid was like “yeah, I like this nearby family, even I don’t really know them that well” (afterwards, they didn’t say this in the middle of socializing). So, I feel good that there’s nearby support in case something goes really wrong, and C25 feels like this is a good choice, and has realized that they really do want to go “away” to college. Then we turned right around and flew home on Saturday, and by the end of the night, we were so forgetful of things that we had a literal Three Stooges moment on a train, and then my husband picked us up and we came home right after midnight “it’s a 4 day trip now!!!”
So, basically, C25 and I had a most fun “road trip” type of experience, and the college choice got made, and the last minute rejection from UW-Seattle has been put in the bucket of “well, I’m glad I didn’t do a lot of research for comparison purposes”. And we both feel pretty good about the whole process.
I think I’m scheduled to put the deposit in tomorrow, cuz we’re both so short on sleep, we feel like we shouldn’t make any big moves and have things to click on to make sure we actually did it, and reading comprehension, and all that. But tomorrow, after school, we’re gonna sit down and fill in the forms and get it done!
Feels good to be “decided” now.