Regarding post #30… Yep, you could always threaten to join the military.
Just be prepared to follow through when they agree that it’s the best option.
Normally, “threatening” your parents is a risky move, especially with parents who have already shown that they’re not afraid to make the big moves.
I wouldn’t have made the choice your parents did… then again, I’ve had no reason to. As others have said, there’s obviously a history we know nothing about. You don’t pull a kid out of college the first time he does something you disagree with.
Whatever the history, think carefully before handing your parents any sort of an ultimatum. Decide whether the big power play is worth the relationship-- and money train-- you stand to lose.