HPU is not seen as serious academically.
Anderson, not sure.
Have you looked into St Olaf? It’s in Minnesota, so, not in the South, but it’s got dance, a chapel with chapel times, thoughtful students of faith from all religions, and an excellent Religion dept. (They used to include dance in worship, I don’t know if they still do).
https://wp.stolaf.edu/dance/
https://wp.stolaf.edu/management-studies/
As for your parents: they’ve taught you, now they have to trust you. However, faith unexamined isn’t faith. It’s by learning and meeting others that you grow in your faith. You can lose your faith at a Christian college and see it strengthened at a secular college: you’re no longer a child but a young adult, so nurturing your faith, questioning it, listening and growing will be on you.
Regardless of college, contact the different Christian clubs. See if there’s a place for students to meet, on or off campus, contact the college’s chaplain and ask about ways faith is put in practice (beside services, are there service opportunities and fellowship moments, for instance?)
I second Wake Forest, Furman, Wofford, Hillsdale (relatively conservative to very conservative); Davidson, Washington&Lee, if you have excellent stats // Wake Forest, UNC CH?
Any reason you’re not applying to UNC CH?
Do you have a budget? Have you run the NPC on all these colleges?