Paying for 50k+ at elite college

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<p>That is a good question, and I don’t know the answer. But…I do not wear rosy glasses when it comes to the reality of who will likely bear the biggest burden of child rearing (been there, done that)…and that is where reality sets in re: the importance of either the husband or both supporting the family; not just the wife.</p>

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<p>You have the luxury of thinking this because you are a man.</p>