<p>Wondering. Should I keep these messages (all relating to my wife in the future)</p>
<p>Remove, I’d say. You have just a few paragraphs to talk about yourself, and if the sexual messages distract from the rest of your essay, you’re pretty much done for.</p>
<p>Is this the one you sent to me? Because I did not note sexual messages in that essay. I don’t think you even mentioned your wife?</p>
<p>Then it’s a different one. Anyway, I read it, and it’s very well written.</p>