<p>Seahorserock, though I fully agree that it is not acceptable for a naked grown man to be in the shower with a naked child unless some extreme situation–(both fell into a mess of poison ivy MAYBE), it is NOT illegal. Several coaches testified that they have showered with their underage charges. The prosecution made sure that the circumstances for those situations were made clear, but it isn’t the showering that is the issue. What McQ stated was that there was more than showering going on, and that it involved sexual assault on the child. He was even more specific than that. But that was thrown out in terms of charges. There are 49 other counts to be discussed and decided upon, but the PA equivalent of male rape was thrown out. </p>
<p>But it is NOT a crime for a naked grown man to be within a foot of a naked child in a shower. That alone is not a crime and it happens innocently and as a matter of fact in a number of scenarios. I don’t think it should and with these types of abuse cases coming to the forefront, it may be something outright forbidden. </p>
<p>THere were many occasions where there were communal showers where adults and children showered naked together. Swimming, camp are just a few examples. We, moms, hated them. Not at all interested in sharing our sags, wrinkles, c-section scars, but in the interest of time in many of those occaisions, you showered and got out. I never heard a whisper, mention or hint of any problems. Not a thing. </p>
<p>What S was doing was a whole other thing, and he was focusing on lone children. The big issue here is whether what happened can fit some or all of the criminal charges, so that he can legitimately be found guilty. I doubt there was anyone who believed or believes that Casey Anthony did not have anything to do with what happened to her daughter. The problem was getting the evidence to support the charges. Like it or not, that is how our legal system works.</p>
<p>Myturn, a lot of those kids had a lot of problems anyways. Maybe it was abuse from S that made Matt suicidal, maybe it was a combination of factors, maybe he had psychological issues. To be torn from one’s natural family and be adopted at that age had to involve some traumatic events. </p>
<p>I don’t understand why the prosecution did not bring Matt into the picture, and why he was used as a “weapon” to prevent S from testifying. I would have thought, given the spin about S’s statements, that the prosecution would have wanted a chance to question S. Somehow, Matt’s statements did not add anything to the prosecution’s case. Or perhaps, this is to be kept in reserve for future prosecutions if this case does not pan out. I wonder if the prosecution has doubts on the outcome of this case. It seems to me that a conviciton for a number of those charges is pretty much assured.</p>