<p>Somehow I feel as if my personality doesn’t mesh with a lot of other peoples’ personalities.</p>
<p>Many of the people I know just mesh with everybody around them. I don’t, for some reason.</p>
<p>Why?</p>
<p>I’m not one of those antisocial people - I hang out with my select group of friends. I can talk and make friends just fine, but I don’t have one of those magnetic personalities … why? </p>
<p>How come? Is it my poker face? Often times, I like to keep an emotionless face at school. And when I’m mad at school, it’s pretty obvious. I’ll walk fast in the halls, purposely bump into people without apologizing, and slam stuff - e.g. I like to slam my fists on tables.</p>
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**purposely bump into people without apologizing, and slam stuff - e.g. I like to slam my fists on tables. ** <a href=“wow%20that%20came%20out%20like%20really,%20really%20boldly”>/quote</a>.</p>
<p>hmm I think the thread about booing the principle is relevant stuff. (both the impulse you had, and how well you handled that impulse.). </p>
<p>You seem prone to making poor choices, but at the same time very willing to think about things. </p>
<p>Do you feel your personality inhibits you from being friends with particular people who you might want to be friends with? or do you just feel like something is not exactly right with yourself because you don’t mesh with everyone?</p>
<p>Oh… well, I would start by not deliberately pushing into people. Don’t take out your anger on random people. What’s making you angry? (You don’t actually have to say it hear, but just think about it.) Obviously it’s not a small problem if you’re lashing out on other people.</p>
<p>Have you had problems with anger management or anything?</p>
<p><em>shrug</em> My personality is um… ‘unique’, ‘queer’, or ‘eccentric’… choose whatever adjective you please. And quite frankly, I don’t really care.</p>
<p>But perhaps it is a combination of both your poker face and your anger. I think it’d be more convenient if you used your poker face ONLY when you are angry. Try not to vent too openly! The combination of both may make you seem like the only emotion you are capable of is anger! Try to show other emotions… smile, snicker, grin, smirk, whatever. </p>
<p>Personally, I only use my poker face when I’m trying very very VERY hard not to laugh. I generally don’t get angry at school… so I can’t help you there (the only people who can anger me are my parents).</p>