Time management is important.
Activities, in my opinion, are about quality, not quantity. And about being authentic to oneself. Tenure is great - so you can accomplish more - vs. hop skotching.
She shouldnât over do it - itâs not healthy - and you donât want to over stress now before college - which brings more stress itself.
If she ends up in environmental science, she might find a specific area that some schools have but others donât.
Many kids get burned out - too many clubs, too hard of classes, too many school visits - so you want to make sure you pace everything right.
First and foremost, sheâs a kid - and needs to stay one.
As for outcomes not being great - thatâs ok - you have to study what you want. Sure, itâd be great for kids to major in accounting, etc. but not all kids are cut out for that. You have to follow your heart. I made the comment moreso about - donât worry if she goes to Cornell vs. ESF vs. Juniata. Sheâs gonna be fine whether itâs a top school or not.
And like anyone in life - sheâll find a path.
But while I think itâs good to talk about life and expenses and budgets and kids donât understand - you still canât force them into the wrong thing. My kid loves Atmospheric Sciences/Meteorology - but he then pivoted to Mechanical Engineering. His reasoning wasnât good - it was money - but he was insistent. He wanted to continue the life he was accustomed to. Thatâs how we found STEP at Purdue - and as it turns out, it cemented his interest - so it was beyond money. But if he wasnât interested, Iâd rather have had him pursue his passion - no dfferent than I did. It didnât work out for me but somehow life turned out ok - and it will for your daughter.
As for leadership, donât forget - you can lead in your role - it doesnât need to have a leadership title. Sheâs working at the soup kitchen. Is she taking ownership on herself - maybe food set up or cleaning - without direction. She knows what needs to be done and she makes it happen? Is she cheering on her teammates or directing people to positions in volleyball?
Itâs great to have a title - but it doesnât make you a leader. She can join a club and get a title but she can also develop leadership skills/mindsets within what sheâs already doing!!
All these kids are killing each other and probably 90% of them are embellishing (to each other). Easy to say, worry about you and not others - but yep peer pressure is huge and itâs sad - she sounds like a well accomplished young lady.
Good luck.
Environmental Studies Summer Youth Institute (hws.edu)
Islands Through Time · College of the Atlantic (coa.edu)