We were supposed to have Thanksgiving in our backyard. The Saturday before Thanksgiving my daughter and her husband went to a wedding. We saw them on Sunday and they both got negative Covid tests on Monday. But my sons were furious and refused to see us. So my husband and I had turkey by ourselves. We have always gone to my mom’s and had never made a turkey and we didn’t do a very good job.
For Christmas we are quarantining and testing and are supposed to see my sons Christmas Eve and then my daughter and her husband (who will see his family Christmas Eve) on Christmas Day. My daughter and her husband are careful, but do see a few friends socially (usually outside) and will see his family, so my sons don’t want us to see them during the quarantine period. It is not ideal, but it is what we have.