@FrancescaBennett I’m sorry your brother is furious with you. It does seem like his family’s activities are too extensive to feel comfortable with right now, with high levels of virus in the community now. I know a lot of people who are having conflicts like that–each person seems to think the people they know and trust are “safe” but why? For myself, I would only feel comfortable with people who have really been staying home. If my daughter were within driving distance, I’d have her here for Christmas, because she can work from home for two weeks ahead of time and not socialize. But my son, who is closer, will be working outside the home, and I doubt he will want to be indoors with us because my husband has a lot of health issues. We did OK with outside Thanksgiving lunch but the hospitalization rate is going up so much–I think we will all be separate and trying to have a zoom meet up. A bunch of us did a zoom today around a children’s holiday performance and it was actually pretty fun.