You have a budget. That trumps. But then most of your current list short of Purdue, Penn State and UConn don’t work if D1 football is the goal. And I don’t see the last two as ins.
So - and I’m not saying these are right for you but look at Temple,Mississippi State and if you are ok with lower division 1 Central Michigan can work.
Ohio U, WVU, U Kansas, and Buffalo can work too.
Schools like Delaware and Purdue won’t from a cost POV.
But are they too large for you - as it sounds like you may need supports.
But those are D1 that could/should hit budget.