Purdue Poly and RIT could happen but apply test optional at RIT. It’s unlikely but not impossible - say 33% odds. Purdue 40/60 or 50/50
I think Marist, St Joes and Millersville happen.
Marist is recognized for support services so it might be a good fit. Have you investigated with a visit and discussions?
You are unsure of budget.
You need to understand the amount you have to work with before applying anywhere.
Are you Mormon ? If not, BYU may not be for you - so another thing to investigate.
Work with your parents on a budget and let us know.
Good luck.