Yeah, I would not try to argue people into a specific result. I don’t see the harm in discussing things conditionally, like you could discuss how IF you are sure you wouldn’t accept a waitlist offer, THEN it would be nice to give up your waitlist spot, that sort of thing. But if the person says they are not sure what they would do if given a waitlist offer by a certain college–end of conversation, because how could you ever really argue with that?
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