<p>To the OP:
I didn’t have PCOS, but I’ve had, & still have, other varieties of debilitating cysts, some of which mimicked episodic appendicitis emergencies, & for a prolonged number of years. Like EK’s, sometimes mine were huge. The tendency runs across several generations in my family. </p>
<p>What I do know is that, while many kinds of cysts can affect fertility, PCOS leads in that regard, due to, as you mentioned, the evidence of hormonal imbalance. I’m never casual about meds, & about The Pill specifically, but I would probably rather have my D live with meds than live with many other effects of PCOS.</p>
<p>How many Second Opinions have you sought out, & how much supplementary reading have you done? It’s interesting: what got me into becoming highly medically educated (in general) was in fact my ovarian cysts. It turns out I ended up “educating” my otherwise extremely competent OB-GYN on the issue. (He had limited knowledge of the many varieties of cysts & cyst symptoms, & needed ultrasound verification once, which proved me right!) It turned out that nothing could really be “done” for me, & childbearing significantly diminished their frequency (probably because correct hormonal balances were restored!).</p>
<p>I would just keep extremely current about the issue, & definitely seek new Ob-Gyn’s when you need to. New treatments & new corrections in the area of hormonal proportions are being discovered everyday. I avoided the hysterosalpinogram phase, luckily, but I’m aware of what EK mentions. Just think about how not too long ago, hysterectomies were so often the treatment of choice for things like endometriosis, cysts, & a whole variety of gynecological ailments. We’ve come a long way from that, & continue to, so it’s important for consumers to take charge of their own medical education. :)</p>
<p>And in that regard ^, I would also encourage you to suggest that your D keep a journal of any non-visible symptoms. The notes & regular tracking I did helped my Ob-Gyn tremendously. And self-reported symptoms often justify objective medical tests, depending on the listening skills of the M.D.
This is also helpful in conjunction with a medication routine.</p>