I was joking however I do think it is wasted and negative energy regardless. I’m not always good at it myself but I do think, as hard as can be to do, it’s best to move on emotionally and not vest energy on wishing negative stuff on others. That person is still “winning” in a way if they still have us thinking about them. Having been through some very negative work related stuff, I know how emotionally draining and damaging it can be.