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<p>This is true in Asia and in North America.</p>
<p>I mean, there’s one parent here who still refuses to acknowledge the fact that I was born here, even though I’ve told her several times before.</p>
<p>To recount an anecdote from last year…</p>
<p>…I was in my high school’s library. Two guys came in, both of whom I knew, and sat across from me. The first person, (Person A), started joking with me. It was in good faith, so I joked back. He laughed. The second person, (Person B), looked at me, and then asked Person A, “Hey, what did he just say?” Using the same words I used, Person A repeated my joke to Person B, who then said, “Oh.”</p>
<p>Person B has consistently claimed not to understand my English. I have met with him on several occasions, and every time it’s the same. I could be standing right next to him and speaking above normal volume, but he’d still say, “What? What did you just say?” and make a face. (Even though I am a native speaker and am understood by all of my friends.) Person A has never had any problems. Both of them are Black and natives of the city where I live.</p>
<p>I can only assume that Person B deliberately chose not to understand my English. It is a personal affair and not evidence of group-to-group racism since Person A understood everything I said.</p>
<p>So, of course, fluency, respect, and love are limited. No contest.</p>