<p>Hey, </p>
<p>I know this may be a weird and pervase question but I was wondering what the deal with “privacy” and i mean “privacy” with roomates. Do they mind or what. Growing up, some tend to become “sexual alone” or sexually “involved” so I’m not sure how roomates deal with those situations. This has been a question on my mind for a long time and since a lot of colelge kids dont complain about it, I hope it isnt a big deal</p>
<p>who cares, what are you scared they will see u naked. big deal.</p>
<p>what exactly are you getting at here?</p>
<p>If there is a sock on the door don’t go in the room. Not sure exaclty what you’re asking, but my susgestion is to work out issues of privacy with your roommate at the start of the year.</p>
<p>Like basically all im asking is how does the notion of sex work in the college dorms. Is it normal to be sleeping across from your roomate at night who, at the same time, is participating in sexual intercourse. What about the pornography viewing on computers and all that stuff. The explicit things ya know !</p>
<p>porno on computers is kind of a middle school or 9th grade thing. usually if your roommate’s having sex with a girl he’ll put a sock on the door and take it off when they’re through if he’s considerate otherwise he’ll kick you out for the night. if you dont care, then he’ll be fine screwing her while you’re in the room though, although its probably half and half as to guys that are okay with roommate in the room. if he has a girlfriend at the same school, you’ll just have to deal that probably at least a fourth of all nights she’ll be sleeping over and probably having sex.</p>
<p>Yeesh, thank goodness I could get an on-campus apartment to move into! I could never ever live in a dorm, how can students live in those deplorable conditions!? Having to share their room with another student, thats just disgusting! : )</p>
<p>…well sex is quite simple. You tell your roomie to find another place to stay on a ceratin night… he says yes/ no… and its up 2 u if u want to have sex in front of your roomie (some people do it… others don’t). Sometimes people put codes on the message board on the door (my best friends roomie decided 2 use oreo)…so that the roomie knew not to come in. idk you just gotta work it out w/ your roomie…</p>
<p>in terms of porn… i guess its up 2 u and your roomie to decided… i’m not even going to go there…</p>
<p>…most schools release roomie info during the summer before… you’ll have a lot of time to talk about areas of interest that u want to know about… plus u can always get to college… and figure it out from there…</p>
<p>hope that helps</p>
<p>~alyssa</p>
<p>As long as you communicate with your roommate, you should be fine. Ask before having sex in the room while he’s there. If you’re uncomfortable with him having sex while you’re there, tell him. Honestly, communication is the most important part of living with someone, particularly someone you’ve never met before moving in.</p>
<p>Yeah we use a word on the door or some sort of signal. The only problem is that everyone on the floor will know you hooked up, even if you think u made up a pretty clever signal, and will they give you crap the next day, especially if it was a drunken adventure where wierd things happen (which is pretty much what it has been for me lately)</p>
<p>My roomate respects the signal, and if i told him that i was going to have sex and he refused to leave, i would have sex in front of him. I would hate it, but then next time he would know i was serious. Most people don’t want to see their roommate doing that and will be happy to leave if you ask nice.</p>
<p>As far as spankin it, good luck. there’s always the shower, and if you need to look at porno that bad, just do it when you know he’s at class, but be aware that just cuz it says that on his schedule doesn’t mean he’s there. You dont HAVE to go to class in college, so he might be hangin out and drop in on you. He probably won’t care unless your on his bed, but if that embarasses you, you just have to be really careful.</p>
<p>I don’t know… When to masturbate?</p>
<p>ewe jk</p>
<p>Know your roommates schedule, that’s all I have to say! I personally live in an apartment, so I don’t really have to deal with that but my friend walked in on his roommate whackin it one time.</p>
<p>I know this doesn’t have to do with sex, but just having time to yourself in your room. This is sadly impossible for me because my roommate never leaves the room. It really annoys me. What should I do?</p>
<p>Simply ask your roommate to leave once in a while because you want some private time.</p>