<p>You have to understand that pretty much 9 out of 10 relationships in college aren’t “real” or “serious” to the guy as much as girls like to think they might be. Sure, some stick for quite awhile and some may be more serious than others. But guys typcally don’t take these sorts of college relationships seriously and uually just want the best of both worlds (dating one girl, hooking up with many). So they tend to flip-flop back and forth between the two. Hooking up with girls get old and guys want a steady thing where they have some sort of emotional connection with on girl. Then the steady thing gets old because you feel like your a prisoner while all your friends are having fun. I have been dating a girl for 2 years in college and a part of me would love to just drop her so I can actually live the “college” life just for little while. I haven’t had “fun” at a party in 2 years. I consider just ending it, but I realize that what we have is something really special and it will be gone if I make such a dumb decsion. But to most guys who have only been dating a girl for a few months, it doesn’t seem like a stupid decision. Don’t expect too much. You are only in college and you are only a kid still.</p>