Question for the guys...

<p>Random but I want to know what most of you think. If you had to choose between the two...</p>

<p>a girlfriend who rated about a 7/8 on the 1-10 scale (meaning she was def good looking but not a full blown bombshell) with a great sense of humor and an sweet personality </p>


<p>a girlfriend who was a perfect 10, but boring, snooty, full of herself. </p>

<p>Which would you pick? Be honest.</p>

<p>I'm trying to get a little insight into the male brain because to be honest it just confuses the s.h.i.t. out of me, and I figure an anonymous (spelling?) forum would be the best way to get a more honest response than asking dudes i know to their faces. lol.</p>

<p>Oh and you can't pick both.</p>

<p>Obviously the first...</p>

<p>Gotta go with the 7/8 with a sense of humor and personality.</p>

<p>There's only one good thing about the second choice;) and that's to look from a distance ;)</p>

<p>Definitely the first one...</p>

<p>You don't think we're that single-minded, do you?</p>

<p>depends on the male you're asking... how old is he... and whats the motivation</p>

<p>This does vary based upon the individual. I know some people who would go for the 10 just for the obvious reason as well as the status amongst friends for dating someone so hot. Most would go with #1 though (including myself).</p>

<p>first one... but I know a few guys that would choose the second, but they are really shallow so ya haha</p>

<p>this scenario really only works if the first girl is more like a 5 on the scale. otherwise the guy gets the best of both worlds...</p>

<p>your idea of a good personality and my idea of a good personality can be two completely different things. give me an EXAMPLE, fool!</p>

<p>My guess is you're actually a 3-4 and not a 7-8 like you're telling us.</p>

<p>i second that motion racinreaver</p>

<p>lol harsh, if you could link images on the forum that would be funny and could prove useful for threads like this.</p>

<p>7-8 is pretty damn good. So her. Definitely.</p>

<p>If it's between a nice, pleasant 3-4 and a *****y 10, then it's a tougher decision. At this point in my life, neither. I may try to sleep with the 10, be friends with the 3-4, but as far as dating goes, I'd hold out for someone who I would consider good in both categories.</p>

<p>In all honesty - there were times I went for the model gorgeous women who were so bland and boring and stuck on themselves I could hardly stand them. I don't regret it for a second. I knew, on some level, that if I didn't go for them when I had the chance, I would never be able to be truly happy with the 7-8 great personality woman I would probably end up with (unless Natalie Portman ever answers my 278 voicemails). </p>

<p>So, that's probably why you see a lot of younger men / teenagers trying to prove to themselves what they can get when there isn't a big commitment attached, and a lot of older guys who could have gotten the 10 woman end up marrying far more interesting but less gorgeous (in a shallow sense) women.</p>

<p>Why choose?</p>

<p>A woman who is an 8 is still hot. I would take her w/o much hesitation. For the one night stand...thats obvious.</p>

<p>lol i never said i was either, for all i know i could be a 3-4.</p>

<p>I think a better question is why anyone (male or female) would want to be with someone who cared as much about looks as personality, let alone more.</p>

<p>The first one to date. Maybe the second one for a one night stand.</p>

<p>@nontraditional: Thank you, that was just what I was thinking!</p>