@Petal12: Of the 11 schools that I know about, all were very significant reaches for you as your SAT score was easily in the bottom 25% for all of those universities. Even with URM status, your chances for admission were not good–as you know now.
I only repeat what you already know in order to help you see your situation in a mature, fact-based light.
Folks want to help you, but you need to help yourself as well.
I wish you the best !