<p>if you knew that a person of the opposite sex was interested in you and attracted to you, but still had feelings for their ex, would you get involved with them? do you think that if you did that would pretty much mean that you were a rebound/ just being used to get over the other person? or do you see it as natural to still have feelings for another person yet starting a new relationship?</p>
<p>i mean if you have a long relationship with someone you can’t get over it immediately, right? it takes time. so if you were to start a relationship after you broke up you wouldn’t really be giving your all… its not fair to the new person, right?</p>
<p>i think it depends on the person and the situation. but other than that, was it like a super messy breakup? or is it one where they might possibly get back together?</p>
<p>i guess its not really a rebound because of the interest and liking you. but hey, rebounds sometimes turn into relationships. but in general, it would be ideal for the person to get over their ex first before pursuing a new relationship. (:</p>
<p>Yeah, it kinda depends on why they broke up and if they might get back together. If they only dated for a few weeks, then it wouldn’t be as bad as if they dated for a few years.</p>
<p>I was with a guy for about 2 years and when we broke up, I kinda liked this other guy too. I went out with that guy for a while and then I realized that I was just using him to get over my ex and fill my needs, so we broke up. Feelings that you have had for someone for a long time don’t usually suddenly vanish. It takes time.</p>