<p>i think everything would be better if lets say, the two people are already going out before prom.</p>
<p>That is always the best option xokkandyykssesox. I don’t think this is the case with the OP however</p>
<p>I’m a girl and, as NoFX said, if a guy asked me how far I wanted to go I’d feel awkward and think that he had no idea what he was doing. This whole situation depends on how experienced you both are. If neither of you are experienced then sure, go for the romantic comedy ask her how far she wants to go plan. It’s not exactly my idea of romance, though. I suggest making the situation more natural and thinking about it less; just be yourself. Don’t push anything on her, but you don’t necessarily have to ask. You can slowly move to do something and give her plenty of time to comment on what you’re doing. I don’t think you should try doing that much with her until you’re comfortable with the situation, and from being concerned about getting past “first base” it seems that you’re not. Whatever you do, please do not ever refer to getting some action as a baseball game ever again, I haven’t heard that since 8th grade, and the girl you are with probably hasn’t either.</p>
<p>[qoute=spanks]Whatever you do, please do not ever refer to getting some action as a baseball game ever again
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<p>Yeah, just refer to it as “getting some action”.</p>
<p>no, I didn’t suggest that</p>
<p>I didn’t feel like thinking of a correct term to insert there</p>
<p>and tell me, is he not looking to get some action? did you read the post?</p>
<p>i don’t really refer to it as anything but hooking up, but some people think that means sex, so I didn’t use it</p>
<p>asks the girl: “so are you ready for 3rd base?”
girl: “out! thats 3 outs”</p>
<p>Spanks, i did read his post and if you read my posts you would know i don’t agree with the baseball comparisson, and i don’t really agree with his intentions. If he is looking for gratuitous sex he could always go to a hooker (would be cheaper then prom) or dating his right hand. No strings attached.</p>
<p>there are plenty of things to do between kissing and having sex</p>
<p>“hooking up” does mean having sex. i hooked up with so and so at a party means i had sex with so and so at a party</p>
<p>i met so and so at a party is more like what he wanted to say. or i was
acquainted
with so and so HAHAHAHA</p>
<p>it doesn’t mean had sex where I live</p>
<p>thanks for the advice. it was a good time.</p>
<p>be sure to let us know how you did on Prom night…</p>
<p>I’d like to issue an errata on Revan’s post:
Be sure to let us know how you both do on Prom night…</p>
<p>i don’t really think the plural is necessary… It seems to be about what base he will reach…</p>
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That is what I was objecting to, not you.</p>
<p>oh come on… u guys can only “get some” on prom night? theres 364 other nights this year that you can get it on during…</p>
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<p>Yes, actually. Welcome to CC, you must be new here.</p>
<p>what about friday night movie sex or something?</p>
<p>Is that an Anime? I’ve never heard of it before. . .</p>
<p>you guys should stop these now and thanks for addressing pilotG205’s question. I think He’ll give us a gist after. i’ve been following all the posts and enjoy most of it.
thanx</p>