<p>so there is this girl who i knew liked me and we are going to prom together. last weekend we hooked up at a party but i couldnt get beyond first base. my parents are going out of town this weekend and i want to have her over. how far do you think i can reasonably get without ****ing her off and ruining prom?</p>
<p>Go as far as she will let you. Prom night is sort of an obligation to put out for chicks. After you get home from prom, put on a romantic comedy or a movie that will make them cry their little eyes out (read: The Notebook, Jersey Girl, Return to Me, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, What Dreams May Come, or City of Angels) and you will be in like Flynn on a Schwinn. Chicks always fall for the scmutchz and you might find out that you actually like some of those movies. I personally found them all enjoyable.</p>
<p>Or you can just get her totally wasted. Maybe even spice her drink with Viagra or Afrodisiac or something else. I guess it’s a question of morality. How bad do you want to go beyond first base?</p>
<p>Or, have a mature and honest discussion with her on the subject.</p>
<p>Please don’t stone me.</p>
<p>I have to go with Nom on this one, you have to be honest with the girl. I would be much more open to advances from a gentleman if he were honest with me. Also you need to remember if it isn’t consentual it isn’t legal. So honesty is definately the best policy.</p>
<p>Well…I guess you’ll find out this weekend, won’t you?</p>
<p>Pilot, I usually do not give advice on this board. But I hope you:</p>
<p>1) Respect this young lady a great deal. Be sure you do not pressure her or neglect her needs. Try to keep in mind that it is as much about her as it is about you.</p>
<p>2) use all the necessary precautions to avoid “problems”. </p>
<p>3) Let her know your intentions.</p>
<p>Also, it is paramount that you do NOT drink or smoke anything that may alter your and more importantly, her bahavior. So I urge you to NOT consume alcohol, even in the smallest quantities. </p>
<p>This said, use your better judgment and remember, always respect your partner and have a good time.</p>
<p>nice to see ur post. i suggest u remember God in all u do on that day. this way u can steer out of trouble and yet enjoy urself.
nice time.</p>
<p>Ask her how far she wants to go. It’s important to have a candid discussion about it BEFRORE prom</p>
<p>dude, if she kisses you back, that is the green light to go as far as you want. and if you still arent entirely sure, let her be on top.</p>
<p>haha…not to make fun of anyone, but…</p>
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<p>just to let you know, most of the time when people say “hooked up” they mean some sort of sexual activity. and dont use baseball terms in anyway.</p>
<p>just be yourself and try to be smooth about everything. when you kiss her, see if she does anything back to you. if not then do whatever feels natural. nothing stupid though. and if she gets upset apologize. or you could just tell her before hand “if i make you feel uncomfortable at all just tell me”. </p>
<p>as far as the movies go The Notebook is probably the best one joev suggested. Jersey Girl sucked. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind is good if she’s not a ditzy “i dont get it” type of girl. What Dreams May Come is just way to depressing and long with older actors. same with City of Angels.</p>
<p>anyway good luck.</p>
<p>That whole “greenlight for how far she wants to go…” yeah that’s a lie…I tried that with my girl and it didn’t go over too well :p…but point is…don’t take advantage of her, dont’ try to pull a one night stand, and don’t go further than she agrees to…it’s a bad idea…1. it gives you a bad reputation 2. it hurts her…don’t make the girl feel like you’re using her for sex or anything like that.</p>
<p>Be honest with her, talk to her…if you wanna get in good w/ a girl and actually wanna GET with her…then just be yourself and dont’ let your hormones get the best of you.</p>
<p>A girl can be your best friend if you let her get close to you, but she can **** you off or hurt you badly if you try and push things too far</p>
<p>This is just my opinion and every girl’s opinions are diferent but… </p>
<p>honestly, I’d get SO bored watching a stupid romantic comedy/sad movie. I’d rather just get wasted as revan suggested (but no viagra lol) and just have fun.
If the guy was someone that I knew (kinda) well, I would probably prefer it if the guy asked me how far i wll go with him but it would be quite awkward - the weird tension will be all gone when starting drinks. But I would be more relieved to know, (in the morning), that at night, I didn’t do soemthing farfarfar at night.
But if I found out (somehow) that this guy raped me or something, i’d get preeettty pised…</p>
<p>I wouldn’t have drinks with someone i didn’t know well (to be on the safe side). I’d rather just watch a fun movie and eat pizza and do fun stuff.</p>
<p>Unless you’re talking about sex… is this about sex? or just stuff before sex? Because drinking and sex is not good. Erase my msg if this is about sex</p>
<p>This isn’t difficult. Just ask this girl if she wants to have sex!!!</p>
<p>Observe:</p>
<p>pilotG205: So, you wanna have sex?</p>
<p>girl: What?</p>
<p>pilotG205: You know, copulation?</p>
<p>girl: (slaps him over the face)</p>
<p>Copulation LOL. Ask her if Coitus is acceptable.</p>
<p>bio book: 4 stages of sexual intercourse: excitement (foreplay), plateau (most of actual intercourse is spent here), climax (orgasm), resolution (ejaculation)</p>
<p>NoFX i do think that is about sex
Sarcasm anyone?
I was trying to be a little sarcastic since i find the whole “base” thing stupid. Reached N base, scored etc… It sounds like a contest where you are trying to “compete” against the girl. It resembles rape in my opinion. Trying to go bases/places where she doesn’t really want to let you go. But if you insist she just might let you, even if she doesn’t want to. That’s why the whole base thing and trying to go as far as possible sounds abussive to me. </p>
<p>The drinking is still a posibility. Depends on the girl. If she sugests it or if she is the slutty type then yes, geting s***t-housed and having fun is okey. But to a limit. However i don;t really thing the girl that Pilot talks about fits in these categories. </p>
<p>So i don’t know, i guess you should just have fun, be mature about it and when one of you(ussually the girl :D) starts feeling uncomfortable about the point reached, stop there. Don’t abuse.</p>
<p>Man I am glad I am not going to prom with any of you people, jerks. Revan is right, turning intimacy into some sort of contest is disgusting and despicable. No girl will want you if this is the only reason you want her. I get so sick of hormonal teenage guys, they are like those annoying dogs that can’t contain their excitement and jump all over you getting you all muddy and slobbery. Who honestly wants some sweaty, pimply teenage boy groping all over them? You must have a tremendous ego to think some nice, decent girl actually wants you to do this to her at the risk of you infecting her with some disgusting rash or impregnating her. After all your mentality indicates that this is the way you regard all girls and it also indicates that you will go as far as possible even if she isn’t completely 100% comfortable. I think you are an ******* and I hope that for her sake she tells you to get the hell away from her before prom.</p>
<p>Why would he take her to prom if there was no possibility of any action??? Might as well just go to the arcade instead of spending the 500 some odd dollars for an overrated party anyways.</p>