<p>I know these relationship threads get old, but I have a feeling this is one that isn’t quite the norm.</p>
<p>Background info-- college freshman 18/f bi or gay… no, I am not sending you pics. And I created a new account on here to hide my identity (not that I am likely to be stalked, but w/e)</p>
<p>So, I see this girl performing at an improv show the week of orientation. I am really attracted to her-- cute and funny. However, when you’re not exactly straight, you learn to ignore same sex attraction unless it’s an extreme case.</p>
<p>Alright, so fast forwarding to a week later, I find her facebook account since it’s listed under one of the improv’s groups. I check it out and find out that she’s both gay and single. So, of course, I get excited, b/c this is the one crush I’ve had that has the potential to amount to something. Her profile says she plays rugby, and since I had already been considering playing (to sprint-- I’m 5’0 and 100 pounds and in pretty good physical shape, so I’m not exactly cut out for any other postion).</p>
<p>Another week passes and it’s the first day of rugby practice. She’s not there (really upset me), but I hear the other girls on the team talking about her-- apparentl she got a concussion playing soccer and would likely not be able to play rugby.</p>
<p>This is when I devise “The Plan” I facebook friend a lot of my new teammates (who are incredibl nice people) as well as her, since she’s in the women’s rugby facebook group for my school. A day after my friend request is accepted, I post this on her wall: “hey-- I vaguely remember some of the other girls on the rugby team mentioning you had a concussion-- hope you’re feeling better 
you going to be able to play later in the season since it’s like an epic sport?”. I figured it was pretty casual and solicited a response, so it worked. About 20 minutes later, she responds with: “I’m hoping to be able to play soon. I figured I needed at least off of sports, but it’s looking like an even worse concussion then I thought (I’m still a little nausious and have horrible heardaches), so we’ll see.”. I respond saying I hope she feels better soon etc. and then she responds back thanking me.</p>
<p>I attended an improv show tonight (a day afetr the facebook wall post sessions) and was hoping to talk to her there-- very casual, and have the opportunity to be funny/quirky (like I am) and get to know her slightly. However, she was surrounded by a group of friends from the show afterwards, and it would likely have been awkward.</p>
<p>So, at this point–what do I do? any suggestions would be really helpful right about now :)</p>