<p>Have you guys been reading this series about adoption in the NY Times? It’s quite wonderful.</p>
<p>ZM- do you have a link? I’m adopted (found my birthfamily about 13 years ago 
) and I’m always very interested in reading about the subject.</p>
<p>"<a href="http://relativechoices.blogs.nytimes.com/“>http://relativechoices.blogs.nytimes.com/</a>”</p>
<p>Here is is. There’s a lot of stuff there, so you have to link around a little bit. I hope you enjoy it as much as I do.</p>
<p>Thanks for the link- I not only know several people who are in international families ( either as the parents or the kid) but a friend is eager to start a family & as his wife has lupus- is more concerned with her health than in having a genetically related child, but is having trouble convincing her of that.</p>