<p>but us secular types like to have more control and guide our money to where we think it could do the most benefit ourselves?
Perhaps you didn’t mean it, emerald, but this statement has a real condescending tone…as if all those who are religious followers are a bunch of lemmings who would blindly hand over cash to religious charities wihtout checking it out. Sure, there are plenty of those types out there. But it’s not just religious followers</p>
<p>I didn’t mean to offend anyone- but I probably will anyway-but its the same reason why I don’t give large amounts of money to organizations like the Democratic party- but I will give money to candidates or smaller organizations that I really believe in- I would rather give to a smaller group-because I want to have more control & I feel like I can see more accountablity.
Its like when people ask me to give money to the Alliance for Education- ( which manages the money for seattle schools) I say heck no- because I don’t have any idea where that money is going to go-</p>
<p>I know that many churches require tithing of 10% of income, which I don’t have a problem with , because it is voluntary to belong to that church or not, and I don’t know if the church then earmarks some of that for community donations. I think though that our community ( well not * our community* because Seattle is the great unchurched) but the larger community has as a value that they tithe and donate to churches.</p>
<p>The secular arena, doesn’t necessarily have that.
I wasn’t raised with a volunteer ethos ( although my father did work on a friends political committee) and I wasn’t really even aware of money we donated to charities- My grandparents were even lousy tippers!</p>
<p>I didn’t start becoming a big community volunteer, until my daughter attended private schools- whose parents were among the big volunteers in the area- and I realized that this was a way to really make a big difference( the Gates foundation for example- secular- but you notice that they are their own foundation and control where the money goes- rather than making huge donations to the red cross * although they may do that as well* )</p>
<p>Churches- are a community, that in many areas, volunteering and commitment of time and money are part of why they exist.
We have people in our area for example- who are barely hanging on, they don’t get nearly enough support from social and health services, and area churches, make life a bit easier for them.</p>
<p>I wasn’t saying that if you are religious you make bad choices- but to believe in a certain theology, you have to be able to make a leap of faith-just like if you have a financial advisor make decisions for you ;)</p>
<p>Perhaps I am just OCD as well as ADD, and I want to control everything.</p>
<p>I donate to Northwest Medical Teams for example- because they do very good work that I believe in. For me- although certainly not for them, the fact that they are spreading the word of Jesus through their work, is beside the point- I don’t donate money for proseletizing, but I do for their health care.
So perhaps I am contradicting myself- Idon’t know- i was just trying to think of a way to explain the differences?</p>
<p>However volunteer secular organizations are becoming better known and widespread they just don’t have the history that some of the religiously affliated organizations do</p>