<p>Cg - this is the first part of an e-mail i’m going to send you when I finish answering you other q’s, but I thought i’d post it here too, so that others can see it.</p>
<p>First of all, congratulations again on your acceptance! This must be a very exciting day for you!</p>
<p>I guess I will start with your first question, about the accuracy of the wikipedia article, and more broadly about the culture of Rice. Although this may not be what you want to hear, I found the wikipedia article to be EXTREMELY accurate. Usually when I read something there are at least a few things that I don’t agree with, but this all seemed true to me. The college system is definitely something that distinguishes Rice, and most people really like it. I am not necessarily the biggest promoter of the college system (I think it can make people with less popular opinions feel isolated) but it does have some advantages (I have gotten to meet a lot of different types of people, I can live with and learn from upperclassmen, and it makes the student body seem a little smaller and more personal).</p>
<p>Baker 13 is really, really not a big deal. It’s generally like 6 fat, ugly guys. Just stay inside; they’ll be gone in 5 minutes. Yes, it’s a big deal on halloween, but no one will make you participate if you don’t want to - most people do not participate.</p>
<p>NOD is pretty sketchy, I’ll totally give you that. But if it makes you feel uncomfortable to have several options. First, don’t go - I’m pretty sure some of the christian groups on campus have alternative activities, or just get some friends to come over and watch a movie. If you’d like to at least check it out, you can be security - loads of kids do this, and it’s a really good way to see what’s going on without being scantily clad or feeling pressured to do anything you don’t want to. You can also sign up to be caregiver (which I did) This means that if someone is very drunk and needs to be watched to determine if they need further care, you will watch them and call EMS if necessary. I didn’t have to watch anyone, so I wouldn’t worry about it much. Plus, NOD is only one day - or 4 days of your college career. I wouldn’t let 4 nights deter you from coming.</p>
<p>In general, Rice culture does involve more drinking (and binge drinking) than I ever expected, and to be blunt it has been my biggest disapointment in the university. Essentially, anyone who wants to drink (regardless of age or current state of sobriety) will be served alcohol at all campus parties. And a lot of people have no concept of their limits. That said, I do not drink, and I do have friends who don’t drink. We are not losers or social outcasts. There are usually plenty of activities going on that do not involve alcohol, but a lot of activities do include drunk people. I am not sure if there is more drinking at Rice than anywhere else, though…
The only problem with the drunkeness is that sometimes people are loud pretty late at night or do really moronic things like pull the fire alarm at 2:20am (like last night…grrr…). It’s frustrating because the university seems really nonchalant about it. However, drinking is not a must at all. A lot of the parties can be fun even if you aren’t drinking - if you come here, definitely go to Sid’s 80s party - dancing on a table in a funny outfit to music from a live band is plenty of fun sober. And the body art party is pretty awesome too - it’s run by the architecture students, and it’s half an open house where you can see their projects and half party, plus you can get painted. Like, you can take off your shirt and they will paint you with a cool design (again totally optional - I was wearing expensive undergarments when I went, and so chose not to get painted - girls have to leave their underwear on, opf course). Even knowing what I know now about drinking at Rice, I definitely still would have come. You are a step ahead of me, you can make an informed decision, where mine was somewhat blind.</p>
<p>I hope that helped…please ask if you have more questions about that - it’s important to come into this with your eyes open.</p>