<p>Glad to hear that your daughter will have peace and the dramas are soon to end. Hopefully, the roommate that moved out will visit less with time.</p>
<p>So is ldgirl’s ex-roommate now rooming with ldgirl’s friend ex-roommate? THAT would be an interesting match!</p>
<p>So, where was this headcase reassigned? Same dorm, same floor? Have to feel sorry for her new unsuspecting roomie, unless she knew about this drama up front. As to the ex coming into the room without permission, I’d definitely report that one. What’s up with that? I’d be nervous too. Theft or property damage will be very hard to prove so the best defense is an offense. The pot already has been stirred, no love lost between these two, so that girl needs to be shut down. I can’t understand how the suitemates are unaware of this girl coming into their own room and then wondering over to your D’s while she’s out. After all, who’s telling your D. that the girl’s been doing this, the suitemates?</p>
<p>The roommate actually ended up in another dorm with what I assume is an uninformed roommate. But she is still visiting the suitemates. She isn’t really close to them, so ldgirl figures it’s just another headgame. She knows the girl’s been in her room because she leaves ‘notes’ and no, they aren’t nice notes…lol! I think the suitemates just don’t know what to do when the roommate boldly enters my d’s room. I can understand that…it’s not really their job to protect my d’s property. It’s my d’s job and I think she should at least let the RA know.</p>
<p>I spoke with my d last night and she said that the worst of it was over the weekend and as far as she can tell she didn’t come around yesterday. So maybe letting the issue lie for now is an ok approach.</p>
<p>Yes, agree that the RA should be kept in the loop and hope your D. is saving those cryptic notes as evidence, just in case. LOL. If there are any more incidents, perhaps the maintenance dept. should install a lock on the bathroom door that locks from inside the room so D. can secure the place while she’s out. The timid suitemates don’t have to play watchdog, but I still don’t get why they are allowing their room to be used as a means of entry. Tell the girl to stay out or she’ll be reported.</p>