<p>Today me and my bf went shopping. Then we came back to my apartment we eat and then decided to take a nap. Anyways my roommate ,she is conservative, came back from work and found us sleeping. She looked angry and disgusted like we did something. Idk but she made me feel bad and embarrassed. I know I shouldn’t care what she thinks. I can almost see her telling are friends about what happened. Any suggestion on how to handle the situation.</p>
<p>You are upset because of the way she looked at you, not because of anything she said or did?
Life will be very long if you spend time worrying and reactingto the expression on someones face , believe me.
:)</p>
<p>oh you napped with you bf and even if you “went all the way” your roomate wil look like an idiiot talking about it</p>
<p>There is no situation to handle.</p>
<p>The fact that you feel bad and embarrassed about it and you are a little worried that she will talk about it shows that you yourself think it was something to feel bad and embarrassed about. She is your roommate, so there is a little relationship there. If you care that much, explain to her. </p>
<p>On the other hand, if you don’t care, or you don’t think it’s her business or if you think it’s not something “bad”, then there is nothing to handle.</p>
<p>Did you ever make an agreement with your roommate about having guests in the apartment?
If you agreed not to have boyfriends “sleeping over,” then maybe she was surprised.
I wouldn’t bring it up unless she does. But think about what sort of expectations you both have about guests, and be prepared to discuss it with her if she brings up the subject.</p>
<p>You are in your 20s and living in an apartment away from home, so I’m surprised to hear that taking a nap with your boyfriend is this big of a deal. If it really bothers you, explain what happened to your roommate.</p>