Say it here cause you can't say it directly- the get it off your chest thread (Part 1)

I know you are grieving and lonely since you lost your H last year, but take your time with this guy. Your kids feel so abandoned and unloved with you being out so much.

I’m so worried about them, all of us are, and we don’t know what to do.

My words never seem to come out how I’d like them to. But I hope you know that I care about you, that many people care about you, and I’m here if you need me. And I understand what you are going through because the same thing happened to me.

Another eerie sunset. 82 degrees at 9 pm, and I can’t see past my outstretched arm. :frowning:

Call me out for cursing, will you? I heard what you said during the fire drill today and I made sure you knew it. What goes around comes around, and it was nice to get a bit of my own back for once.

You paid $$$ to have steps put in to the lower lot but those steps go nowhere! I cannot even get down the hill
to use them. I decided not to veto this one but man do I wish I had been more involved. No, this wouldn’t have happened on my watch. It is like you are learning things that should have been learned 40 years ago.

To my contractor–when I tell you what I want maybe you should listen instead of telling me why I do not need it.
Now you get to go back and delay the job because the work needs to be done the way I said in the first place.
I do not think I will be using you again even though we have a 15 year old relationship. We will see.

To my neighbor whose feeling I am sure I hurt by asking you to leash you dog so that I can get out of my car
and even chat with you sometimes…she jumps on me every time she sees me and I hate it. You stand right there
and yell at her while my clothes and skin are scratched. I do not want to have bad feeling about this but it has
gone on too long.

I really don’t want to talk about my own Koreans like this, but man they sure do break traffic rules a lot. How did they even pass the driving tests?

To the owner of the large dog at the vet today:

I told you so, I told you so, I told you so…(I only said it out loud once)

When I told you, twice, that my cat is nervous, doesn’t like dogs and to please keep yours away because she will scratch, you ignored me and said, “Oh, Marvin is gentle and loves cats!”. Well, that may be but now Marvin is going home with a bloody nose and it is your fault. Sorry, not sorry.

To the vet staff:

My animals have been your patients for years and while I love the vets and vet techs, the office staff needs to exert more control over the waiting room and be strict with pet parents about controlling their animals. A firm, “Please stay back and keep your dog away from the cat until it is your turn” while I was settling my bill would have helped avoid today’s unpleasant situation. X(

Why would you play your phone in the waiting room as if we all want to hear what you’re listening to? Have you ever heard of common courtesy?

Google came through. Son has what he believes is a NEW (not refurbished) phone, and it appears to have been shipped within hours of getting son’s messed up phone.
Thank you Google!

You were too good a person to die so young.

I wasn’t happy when your dad asked if it was okay if you had friends over for your birthday. We are working long hard hours and are exhausted and having 15 + drunk lifeguards over at our house was not welcome.
When I woke up the next morning to see that someone , without permission came into the house instead of sleeping in the garage apartment as agreed if they were not ok to drive, I was annoyed. Finding a toilet clogged with paper towels , beer bottles on the street outside of our neighbor’s house ( how embarrassing )
This is just plain unacceptable behavior…and it was solely your responsibility to clean up after your disrespectful

  • friends *
    How is this even an issue ?
    Also, 25 is WAY too old for this nonsense…
    This is the last time

It was such a relief to read that you appreciate that I would always fight for you. Even though we both know that I really can’t do that any more.

You are a cat. You have not used even one life. You can do it!!! Just look at your two girl kitties. They are doing fine.

Ten months ago my husband was given his standing back and allowed to pastor a church again. Flash forward and his church is in utter chaos from conflict. Looks like he’ll be four for four being fired from churches.

I’d hoped this wouldn’t happen again until I escape next August. Underestimated his level of destruction.

Wow, I can believe I have lost 40 lbs since June! The weight loss has been slow recently, but I sure feel so muhc better from low carb diets and intermittent fasting. Now, I need to lose more just so that I don’t get chaffs from my inner thighs…

It is 10 pm, and it is 82 degrees outside. That’s it! I am moving to HI.

You blather on about politics, but you know what would help the economy? If you would pay my husband your 2 year overdue bill. And you owe the plumber even more money. And who knows how many others. OK, maybe it wouldn’t help the economy, but it would help us creditors. Or could you please stop spouting off about politics when you don’t know anything?

Lesson learned.

Vents are not welcome, unless you’re the one venting.

Can we please just teach everyone to respect one another , be kind to one another , etc and stop singling out young men and how they treat women. Frankly, I’m getting tired of people telling me how to raise my son. The implication that we’re not having these discussions is insulting.

Older son just let to take his stuff to his new “adult” apartment. I’m happy and sad, all at the same time.
It’s very close to where his GF works, but now he’s got to find a job. I hope he’s successful quickly.

Too late to add to my other post, but I have to share.
One of the things they were most excited to take is the k’nex he played with when he was little.
They took apart the expensive sets and only wanted the general use pieces, but it was very sweet seeing them get excited over toys.