“But what I wanted to say is that when I read the article I immediately saw a parallel to healthcare, like hebegebe. The parents in the case are looking to be reimbursed for their up to $70,000 per year private school expenditures.”
Obviously, that is a big expense, but I think @hrsmom had the best point, that parents shouldn’t have to go that route when seeking help. In a perfect world, the schools would be equipped to handle special needs kids of all kinds, but therein lies the rub. In most places shools are locally controlled, and local school districts have to absorb that cost. In NJ, there are 660 school districts in a small state relatively, and each has its own funding from local taxes and each has its own special ed programs (there are regional districts that work where they have the special ed at one school, but that isn’t all that common). It would make sense to have the state fund these, to set up schools that can help most kids with special needs, but they don’t, because people complain about ‘local control of the school’. For something like this kid, if we had decent special ed done across districts, if you had a kid that was such an outlier, a 70k expense could be paid for by the state rather than the district, and if we had decent special ed few kids would need that…but we don’t live in a perfect world.
The real problem too is as someone as pointed out, looking at someone else as a freeloader, a sponge, often tinged with jealousy, rather than looking at it 'but for the grace of god, go I". The sad irony is many of those who complain about paying for others are often those taking from others, which is part of the problem, people don’t see the whole system and a lot of them are not even aware of how they are ‘sponging’ off of others, subsidized, etc shrug.
And as a pragmatic person, what I would really like to see is a solution, ideas, schools and people willing to figure this out, rather than as happens time and again, courts forcing something that ends up costing a ton of money. This has happened in many states with funding schools with local property taxes, courts have made clear that funding formula leads to gross inequality, they have been fighting over this in NJ for close to 50 years and it still ends up in the courts, because the underlying problem has not been solved, there have been band aids, laws mandating how much a school can spend, but there is no solution.