<p>the other day my ‘friend’/roommate REALLY ticked me off.</p>
<p>first, we are in a fraternity (we’re not typical frat guys). so we had a party about a month ago, and apparently my ‘friend’ went around telling everyone about how ‘bad’ i am at talking to girls. we were both talking to this girl at the party, i MAY have said something offensive to her (if i did, it was accidental). but heres the thing: I have lived in america my entire life. my roommate has been here for only a few years, so he doesnt understand the english language completely and thus cant read body language of americans as well as i can. hes a FOB.
sure, i’m no player when it comes to girls. but even IF i said something offensive, he has NO right to be talking crap about me to everyone we know.</p>
<p>second, i told him about his talking behind my back, and he WASNT SORRY. if anything, he actually HAD THE NERVE to start yelling and lecturing to me about how i wasnt being a ‘brother’ since i’m not showing up to the meetings. he also whined about how i care too much about what other people think (how hypocritical of him, because whenever i mention that i find FOB girls to be unattractive, he takes offense, even though thats NOT a racist remark)</p>
<p>well, i 'm quitting this lame frat at the end of the semester but cant move out of the house yet. once i do, i’ll just gradually disappear from them to quit being a member.</p>
<p>i’ll probably just pretend to get along and be his friend and to show interest in the frat until i leave.</p>
<p>in the meantime, i’m looking for some payback without making it too obvious that my intent is to eventually withdraw. since that ***hole probably told everyone in the frat lies about me, i plan on telling everyone the truth. i dont know who’ll actually believe me since he comes across as nice and friendly to everyone but he obviously is a despicable person in the inside</p>
<p>how much of my culture does he understand?
he never of the term ‘classic rock’ until i told him about a month ago. he also never heard of the ‘pittsburgh steelers’ until about a month ago</p>
<p>well i’m gonna give him a good lecture about what a jerk he is and how hes using his excuse of being a FOB as a crutch as if he can just act and say whatever he wishes, even if means offending me</p>
<p>if he still refuses to apologize i’ll expose him to everyone for the jerk he is.</p>
<p>i’ll quit the frat and say hes the reason i left</p>
<p>that is, unless you guys have a better idea as to how i should confront him</p>
<p>i would LOVE to give a nice smack to his butt ugly face, but i need a place to stay for the rest of the semester and dont want to get kicked out</p>
<p>Then do it when he isn’t expecting. Dark alley, brass knuckles, lead pipe, you get the idea. Seriously though tell him to **** and get his **** right, or you won’t put up with it. Don’t leave because of him. You can’t run away from conflicts forever. This will just make you complacent. Better yet send him here (I’m in Pgh) and to repeat that he doesn’t know who the Steelers are in a bar. Problem solved.</p>
<p>Honestly, you are the one who sounds self absorbed. Why would you think anyone cares about how you talk to girls? You need to get over it. Your foreign friend is entitled to his opinion and he can share it with whomever he likes (This is AMERICA). You sound like a juvenile wanting to get revenge. Grow the hell up! Actually your statement about not thinking a certain type of girl is attractive is racist. You are putting an entire group into one negative entry. You havent met all of the girls, so your basically making a statement based off what you’ve seen in their ethnicity. Plus, if you said something offensive to a girl at a party then your foreign friend is actually just telling the truth, hes not making this stuff up. Why dont you go get yourself some etiquette classes and then get yourself some anger management classes you ****** bag.</p>