<p>I do have a Nordstroms close by. And I was just thinking that a trip there might be a good idea too. </p>
<p>I don’t think I could buy shoes online. I test all shoes to make sure I can walk in them. Some shoes won’t work for me based on how the upper lays across the big toe joint.</p>
<p>I am so used to just buying utilitarian shoes, this excursion is either going to be really fun or really depressing.</p>
<p>I have a pair of gray pumps in a style very similar to this one that I can RUN in. (had major foot surgery 4 years ago where they fused my second toe straight, so I can relate to not have a foot that bends very well).</p>
<p>[Jillian</a> - M276378](<a href=“http://www.munroshoes.com/our-shoes/394-M276378-JILLIAN]Jillian”>http://www.munroshoes.com/our-shoes/394-M276378-JILLIAN)</p>
<p>I would see if Nordstroms carries it. I have found, however, with Munro that their sizing is very true, so if you can find your size, you can try Zappos. (have no guilt buying/returning with them - it’s their business model. I would love to know their return ratio!)</p>
<p>I wish I’d only bought 2 pairs of shoes this year! I really really have a shoe problem! </p>
<p>Here are a couple of ideas [Anne</a> Klein Gaelly Champagne Linen - Zappos.com Free Shipping BOTH Ways](<a href=“Anne klein gaelly champagne linen anne + FREE SHIPPING | Zappos.com”>No results for Anne klein gaelly champagne linen | Zappos.com). [Anne</a> Klein Jest Natural Sprinkles/Gold - Zappos.com Free Shipping BOTH Ways](<a href=“Anne klein jest natural sprinkles gold anne + FREE SHIPPING | Zappos.com”>Anne klein jest natural sprinkles gold + FREE SHIPPING | Zappos.com). [Cole</a> Haan Air Talia Wedge 40 Chestnut Suede - Zappos.com Free Shipping BOTH Ways](<a href=“Cole haan air talia wedge 40 chestnut suede + FREE SHIPPING | Zappos.com”>Cole haan air talia wedge 40 chestnut suede + FREE SHIPPING | Zappos.com). [Anne</a> Klein Raylene Platinum Snake Metallic Leather - Zappos.com Free Shipping BOTH Ways](<a href=“Anne klein raylene platinum snake metallic leather anne + FREE SHIPPING | Zappos.com”>Anne klein raylene platinum snake metallic leather + FREE SHIPPING | Zappos.com)</p>
<p>Disclaimer. I didn’t look at any other shoes before I posted these.</p>
<p>Love your 2nd choice deb922. I may order myself a pair!</p>
<p>Another shameless plug for zappos. I wear a 10N and it is hard to find in stores. D2 wears an 11N, S1 a 14. Plus I don’t like heels or flip-flops. Zappos: just order a few sizes if unsure and send back what you don’t like. Free shipping and free return. Rarely go to a shoe store anymore.</p>
<p>When H broke his wrist 3 years ago and needed slip-on shoes ASAP, I ordered 8 pairs. They arrived the next day and he found 2 pairs that worked. Shipped the rest back.</p>
<p>Edit—just saw they are only in medium. Not going to work. But still cute!</p>
<p>My usual footwear consists of athletic shoes in an extra-wide width with a deep toe box to allow for an orthopedic insert. I can’t wear a heel > 1/2". Going barefoot is no longer feasible (I spent my childhood & teens mostly barefoot except for school and church.) I also refuse to buy shoes made in China, which eliminates an awful lot of both orthopedic shoes and attractive dress shoes.</p>
<p>While these can’t compare with some of the shoes posted earlier for style, they might meet the comfort requirements:</p>
<p>[Munro</a> American Merrie Taupe Met. Kid/Taupe Suede - Zappos.com Free Shipping BOTH Ways](<a href=“Munro american merrie taupe met kid taupe suede munro + FREE SHIPPING | Zappos.com”>Munro american merrie taupe met kid taupe suede + FREE SHIPPING | Zappos.com)</p>
<p>[Munro</a> American Avalon Shoes - Mary Janes (For Women) - Save 48%](<a href=“http://www.sierratradingpost.com/munro-american-avalon-shoes-mary-janes-for-women~p~78804/?filterString=s~munro%2F&colorFamily=25]Munro”>http://www.sierratradingpost.com/munro-american-avalon-shoes-mary-janes-for-women~p~78804/?filterString=s~munro%2F&colorFamily=25)</p>
<p>Shoebuy is another store that offers free shipping & free returns. It also has a good advanced search function.</p>
<p>Thanks everyone!</p>
<p>I was so worried about shoes when I heard about the 2 weddings this summer. The crazy stuff you see on tv! I thought it was all platform, 5 inch heels, etc.</p>
<p>When I shop for shoes now, I just head straight to the gym shoes or plain black flats. </p>
<p>But with your help, I see that there is hope for something cute that won’t kill me. I can get something with a low heel, maybe open toe, maybe sparkley, definitely nude colored. I just needed my eyes opened.</p>
<p>Thanks for the info on the free return shipping stores too.</p>
<p>Commenting on my own post lol! I like the Cole Haan pumps. They come in nude with a small wedge heel. I don’t have these shoes but I have a pair of Cole Haan loafers and they are super comfortable. I also fine Anne Klein ballet flats pretty comfortable when you don’t want to spend a fortune.</p>
<p>Deb922 - Those Cole Haan pumps do look great in the nude color. The patent leather makes them dressy. I like the fact that they have a non-slip sole too.</p>
<p>If you’re having trouble keeping a slip on sandal or flip-flop style on your foot then do what I do–good old double stick tape. Put as much or as little in the bottom of your shoe as you feel comfortable with. If it feels too sticky then just work it a bit with your finger until it loses some of it’s grab. It’s transparent so even if you take your shoes off, nobody will know. Works great!</p>
<p>I like Hush puppies soft style line -they usually have some low heeled shoes
Also Naturalizer has some lower heeled shoes</p>
<p>If your foot is small enough, perhaps you would like a child’s shoe?
They have some styles that don’t look terribly childish but they seem to run wider, and to have lower and sturdier heels.</p>
<p>[Nina</a> Kids Seeley (Youth) Bone Pearl - Zappos.com Free Shipping BOTH Ways](<a href=“Nina kids seeley youth bone pearl nina + FREE SHIPPING | Zappos.com”>Nina kids seeley youth bone pearl + FREE SHIPPING | Zappos.com)</p>
<p>A Youth 5 is about a Women’s 7.</p>
<p>^tht conversion is good to know! I actually have seen some kid’s sandals I like, and i have small feet. (some part of me should be, right?)</p>
<p>In my experience, kids’ shoes – even if they fit – are styled slightly differently than the adult version. They are generally stumpier and less elegant. They make your foot look think and wide, not long and elegant.</p>
<p>I wore shoes very like these: [Clarks</a> Billie Jazz Teal - Zappos.com Free Shipping BOTH Ways](<a href=“No results for Clarks billie jazz teal clarks | Zappos.com”>No results for Clarks billie jazz teal | Zappos.com) for three or four weddings over the last few years.</p>
<p>If I weren’t the MOB, I would wear those, dmd! (the color might even match the dress I’m thinking about–but i’m trying to picture those with chiffon!)</p>
<p>Actually, given any choice, I’d wear my Tevas!</p>
<p>(side question–can I kick off shoes for dancing, or is that only something we did when we were young in the 70s/80s?)</p>
<p>At HS dances everyone brought socks to put on and dance in. Yes, yes, yes. Everyone will talk about how cool you are garland and copy shamelessly :)</p>
<p>Here’s a perfect little nude kitten heel… </p>
<p>[Stuart</a> Weitzman - Poco Patent Leather Kitten-Heel Pumps - Saks.com](<a href=“http://www.saksfifthavenue.com/main/ProductDetail.jsp?FOLDER<>folder_id=2534374306438409&PRODUCT<>prd_id=845524446431152&site_refer=AFF001&mid=13816&siteID=J84DHJLQkR4-ev8oCWrk0msVel_KoiHaZA&LScreativeid=1&LSlinkid=15&LSoid=203720]Stuart”>http://www.saksfifthavenue.com/main/ProductDetail.jsp?FOLDER<>folder_id=2534374306438409&PRODUCT<>prd_id=845524446431152&site_refer=AFF001&mid=13816&siteID=J84DHJLQkR4-ev8oCWrk0msVel_KoiHaZA&LScreativeid=1&LSlinkid=15&LSoid=203720)</p>
<p>Yes you can kick off your shoes for dancing. We went to a very traditional wedding last summer. It didn’t seem like anyone was wearing shoes after dinner. Shoes on for walking down the aisle, pictures, entering the reception and maybe that first dance. Then…ditch the shoes.</p>
<p>A good friend MOB a few years ago had a very stylish pair of shoes that she wore UNTIL the reception. At the reception, she put on the cutest pair of silver sneakers! She was the life of the party!</p>
<p>Whew! Good to know! Our family intends to dance up a storm! Epic dance parties have been a tradition since we all were teens–the kids grew up with it. We just rarely get more formal occasions!</p>
<p>You may take your shoes off. The “kids” bring ballet flats now instead of socks, like these: [Tory</a> Burch Eddie Ballerina Flat - Neiman Marcus](<a href=“http://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/Tory-Burch-Eddie-Ballerina-Flat/prod121850325/?ecid=NMCIGoogleProductAds&ci_sku=prod121850325skuBLACK&ci_gpa=pla]Tory”>http://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/Tory-Burch-Eddie-Ballerina-Flat/prod121850325/?ecid=NMCIGoogleProductAds&ci_sku=prod121850325skuBLACK&ci_gpa=pla)</p>
<p>I am sure there are cheaper ones.</p>