Thanks. I assume that’s $35k per year and your family can fund all 4 years. Yes?
You should use the net price calculator for these schools to determine how much need-based aid you would qualify for. You may not qualify for any - in which case most of the colleges you’ve listed will be unaffordable. So use this as a starting point as I mentioned above.
Your in-state options are your best bet as others have pointed out. You have a pretty “reachy” list. You need to identify additional schools that are affordable and where you have a very high chance of acceptance.