Should I feel hurt?

Pre-College Topics High School Life
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<p>I know this is long, but please help me out. </p>

<p>So, let’s just say there are 3 chicks - Sally, Franny, and Annie. </p>

<p>Sally, Franny, and Annie are all friends. I hang out with Sally on a regular basis outside of school, but not necessarily AT school. Franny and I hang out at school (and sometimes outside of school). Annie is someone who I’ve only talked to a couple of times. We’re just acquaintances. I’m not really friends with her, but like I said before, Annie is friends with Sally and Franny.</p>

<p>One day, Franny invited Sally, Annie, and me to go see a movie together. We did. I thought it went well. I talked to Franny and Sally as usual (since they’re my good friends, obviously) and talked to Annie too (even though I don’t know her that well). We shared some laughs. We weren’t together that long, but there wasn’t any awkwardness. None of us had hung out together before (I usually hang out with SALLY and FRANNY separately, but I’m not really friends with Annie, so obviously I haven’t) but it was still decently fun. </p>

<p>So, today I viewed Sally’s Facebook (whom I chat with a lot HAPPILY about the plans we have for this weekend). It appeared she was having a convo w/ Annie (once again, the one whom I don’t know too well) about our outing. So, out of curiosity, I looked at what she said to Annie: </p>

<p>“blah blah blah it was fun, yada yada. you, me, franny, so-and-so (not me, but a girl they both know)? SOON.” </p>

<p>This other girl that she mentioned in the sentence is also someone like Annie - someone Franny and Sally and Annie know well but whom I don’t know well.</p>

<p>That’s basically, in a nutshell, what she said. Totally didn’t even include me in the sentence at all about hanging out again. I’m starting to wonder why she wouldn’t want to include me. Is it something personal? Because Sally talks to me normally over Facebook. I thought the outing went well, even though I’m not familiar with Annie. </p>

<p>Maybe she just didn’t include me b/c I don’t know Annie? What do you think?</p>

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<p>What do you mean?</p>

<p>Might I add, this other girl that she mentioned in the sentence is also someone like Annie - someone Franny and Sally and Annie know well but whom I don’t know well.</p>

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<p>welcome to the internet</p>

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<p>Bumpity, bumpity, bump.</p>

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<p>I would appreciate it, cs12345, if you could give me an actual answer. So you think it’s personal?</p>

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<p>^I don’t think it’s personal, I’m sure they are willing to do things with you too:) Maybe they felt that since you didn’t know her as well, you might not be as willing to do something with her again. I hope that helps:></p>

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<p>Hm… OK. I see what you’re saying, Wartsandall. Thanks!</p>

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<p>It’s not personal.</p>

<p>News flash: Your friends may have other friends. Ones that they want to hang out with.</p>

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<p>I can’t think of a commonly used word to describe an intimate group of people of over 3 persons. They’re just trying to be politically correct in their terminology, don’t take it personally. There’s only so much room in a single room. ;D But lift up a bit, there are always more opportunities.</p>

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<p>The most important thing you forgot to mention: are you a dude? I’m guessing you are. If so, relax if you weren’t included in the sentence. Girls tend to do stuff like that.</p>

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<p>I guess you just aren’t one of the girls.</p>

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<p>fvgfgagfksdfkasdflasdlfalskfadsfas</p>

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<p>@theReach - I’m a girl.
@cjgone - I don’t get what you mean.</p>

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<p>Well then, either those girls always hang out together, she didn’t want to include you when telling Annie because you two don’t know each other very well, or that she’s being a d1ck.</p>

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<p>i fail to see how “being a d1ck” can even be an option. tbolts said it best.</p>

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<p>Most of the time, if I have a group of really tight friends, it’s a group of 3, and it’s sort of difficult to solidly add people to it, so we always sort of alternated the other person we’d hang out with. Let’s say there was me, Millan, a girl named Kayla, and a girl named Emily. We hung out all the time, and sometimes we’d hang out with other girl named Stacy, or sometimes with this girl named Alya. Kayla and Alya were best best friends, but our group of 3 wasn’t super tight with her, so we didn’t consistently hang out with her, but it didn’t mess up the friendship of Kayla and Alya. It’s hard to become part of a really solid group.</p>

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<p>Maybe they’re just sick of you.</p>