<p>Nope. I agree with Greenbutton. </p>
<p>What I might do, is contact them and let them know you are going to be in the area, and want to visit their father, and would love to see them too. Perhaps you can all get together in that situation.</p>
<p>A lot of times as people get older, it becomes a gray area as to whether neglect is at a point where intervention is required. It’s akin to whether or not to report someone for child neglect and any conversation even encroaching on whether or not the care or the lack thereof is something to be addressed is going to be received the same way. If your uncle is being neglected and needs intervention in the eyes of the laws and agencies there, it’s one thing. Otherwise, it’s none of your business.</p>