<p>This just gets worse. Turns out he went to the bar last night and got wasted and got with this random floozy. My mom and I agree that he must go, but we need to talk to my sister. </p>
<p>I never though of much of sleeping in the same bed with him before because I have done it before and nothing happened. I will think twice next time.</p>
<p>I’m glad that you were able to discuss the situation with your mom, and make some progress on it.</p>
<p>I’m glad you talked to your mom as well. And it sounds like she is on your wavelength that Justin needs to move out. Is he not currently dating your sister? If not, I can’t see why your sister would want her ex-fiance whom she is not currently dating to live in your house. That’s not the greatest situation for her either. I don’t know how old your sister is, but I think your mom would have the final say on who lives in the home or not.</p>
<p>Umm, this sounds like Brokeback Mountain.</p>
<p>omg dude
i slipped</p>
<p>Good. Now kick him out on your authority, never mind the sister. He’s a player. Stop playing.</p>
<p>Being involved with a bi-sexual man is definitely not in the best interests of your sister, IMO. Does she know he has the hots for you? Has he been HIV tested? I ask this because you mentioned his night with “the floozy”. How many others, either male or female, have there been? God, your situation is grist for Jerry Springer…:rolleyes:</p>
<p>You should definitely steer clear of this guy, especially if you love your sister.</p>
<p>Im sorry
it was a lapse of judgement
we finally got rid of him
but he continues to call
im going to change my number</p>
<p>Good idea, and good job.</p>
<p>Applause. You did what you had to do. Changing numbers will refresh your privacy and not let him continue to bother you. I bet it’s a relief to move on.
We all have lapses of judgment and learn from experiences.</p>
<p>duckedtape, are you a guy, girl, or both? I think you’re a girl, but I could be wrong.</p>
<p>does my gender matter?</p>
<p>Probably not … but it’s incredibly confusing. If you want real advice, it’s best to let your audience have all the facts, and that’s a pretty basic fact where the topic is personal relationships, sex, love and maybe a little rock and roll too.</p>