Should I stay on the University of Chicago waitlist?

<p>Sorry about the length of this post, but I am in a major dilemma. I’m using this as a way to organize my thoughts about the process too. Ok, so here’s my dilemma:</p>

<p>I was accepted to 3 schools, rejected from 3, and waitlisted at 4, including UChicago. </p>

<p>I have decided to enroll in the UGA Honors program–with the HOPE scholarship and the charter scholarship, the total annual cost will be around $5,000. My parents are also offering to buy me a new car, which would make my life a lot easier since I need a car to drive to my job in the North Carolina mountains (we weren’t quite sure what we would do if I decided to go somewhere else).</p>

<p>The only wait list spot that I accepted was that from UChicago since it’s the only one that I decided that I had any real interest in. I’ve been debating about staying on the wait list though for the following reasons:</p>

<p>-Money–based on financial aid that I received from other schools, I’ll probably have to take on about $35,000 in debt, and my parents would probably be taking about $65,000…if I went to UGA, I would graduate debt free and could save the money for grad school, and the $5,000/year is affordable for my parents.</p>

<p>-Weather–I know that most people say to not make a decision based on weather, but quite frankly, I’m from the south and I’ve never experienced a Chicago winter…</p>

<p>-On the off chance that I do get accepted, I would have to make a decision and possibly visit the university during the middle of IB exams, which would only add more stress to my life</p>

<p>-I feel like the reason why I’ve even been on the wait list is a matter of pride…before admissions came out, Chicago was maybe my number 4 or 5 choice…if it had been my top choice, I would definitely stay on, but I feel as though I’m staying on because I just want to prove to myself that I could get in and that if I went there, it wouldn’t be a matter of purely liking the school but more just a matter of going to the more prestigious school</p>

<p>-Based on the last point, I feel as though it would be selfish for </p>

<p>-UGA Honors is a really good school–they send people to top graduate programs and it was the only university to have 2 Rhodes Scholars. At UGA, I would start off at the top of the class just by being in the Honors Program, and I feel as though I could make more of a name for myself at UGA. At University of Chicago, I would be overshadowed by everyone. I would also be able to exempt almost all of my freshman year with predicted IB test scores…at UChicago, I would have to abide by the core curriculum (math…blech). I could probably also try out pre-med more easily at UGA because I’ll probably be in a little bit weaker pull of people (although the students in the HP are incredibly smart–many people choose it just because of the cost factor. I even know someone in the program who won an international science award in high school).</p>

<p>-What I really like about University of Chicago is their “life of the mind ideology”–I feel that what has really benefited me the most about the IB program was how it helped me develop my critical thinking ability. I also like the nerd culture there. I’m not sure if I would find as much of this at UGA. UChi would also offer better networking across the country, whereas UGA would probably only provide good networking for Georgia. But other than those, I feel like the only reason why I’m staying on the waitlist is because of my pride.</p>

<p>-I would have more fun at UGA in all likelihood.</p>

<p>-On the off-chance that I am accepted off the wait list and I choose not to go there, I would only be delaying the decision for someone who may be really passionate about the school (i.e. someone who’s first choice was Chicago).</p>

<p>-I would have a hard time getting a summer job with the quarter system and my breaks would not coincide with those of my old friends.</p>

<p>-At UGA, I’ll be in good company (about 6 or 8 people from my high school will be there). On the flip side, I won’t be able to branch out as much since most people at UGA are from Georgia.</p>

<p>-College is what you make of it.</p>

<p>-The likelihood of getting in off the wait list is miniscule and the anticipation/stress of waiting even longer could ruin the last month in my senior year, and the disappointment of being flat out rejected could upset me even more. Moreover, it’s quite possible that they won’t be able to admit anyone, and I would just be wasting time by sending extra stuff and anxiously waiting.</p>

<p>-I would also need to rush my “continued interest” letter and additional recommendation to the school.</p>

<p>Would anyone like to offer any sound advice? I feel as though I am currently unable to do so. Advice from people who have been in similar positions or who attend either UGA Honors or UChicago. </p>

<p>Thanks!!!</p>

<p>“someone who may be really passionate about the school (i.e. someone who’s first choice was Chicago).”</p>

<p>Yep thats me.</p>

<p>So if u dont intend on matriculating please take yourself off the waitlist, UGA honors should have you very proud already :)</p>

<p>Congrats to both of you, i heard this year was hard at Chicago.</p>

<p>Sorry Buddha. I get your point, but tyler it sounds like your hearts in Chicago. What is the question really? I don’t get it.
of course you should stay on the wait list. Dont worry about a choice you MIGHT or MIGHT NOT have… stay on the list, and deal with the question if the situation changes. </p>

<p>Also, to avoid a let down, try not to think about the wait list… dive into GA and get excited. </p>

<p>but based on your post you really should stay on the list… you may always wonder.</p>

<p>Stay on the waitlist and don’t think about these things until you get accepted off it.</p>

<p>mttyler7: It seems like you are a very mature student who pretty much came up with the pros and cons of staying on the waitlist. I do not think you should stay on the University of Chicago waitlist. UGA Honor Program, on top of your financial situation, should pretty much prompt you to go to UGA.</p>

<p>I think you should give your potential acceptance to another student. Save money for graduate school, and you are right, college is what you make of it.</p>

<p>I just want to say something about this whole potential student thing. Unless I’m very, very, very wrong, even if people decide to stay on the waitlist for the hell of it, I’m sure that IF they got in from the waitlist and told the admissions guys they didn’t want to go, no place would be lost. </p>

<p>The way I understand it: admissions has a certain number of seats it needs to fill for the incoming class, and it fills up what’s left from the waitlist. If someone stays on the waitlist and gets in even though he doesn’t really want to attend, wouldn’t that have no effect on the rest of the waitlistees because admissions would know that the spot hasn’t been taken?</p>

<p>^ From what I understand, the issue is that this prolongs the waiting for people to hear back, leaving them in limbo for longer.</p>

<p>The OP sounds like someone who is genuinely interested in Chicago and wouldn’t be “wasting” the spot.</p>

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<p>Your parents would be going 65k into debt? Go to UGA.</p>

<p>UC is amazing, but it ain’t worth 65k of debt.</p>

<p>The odds of getting in anyway are so remote – be the master of your own destiny and pull the plug, instead of waiting for someone else to.</p>

<p>why not stay on the waitlist? I mean, is it truly hurting anyone? You aren’t committing to attend… However, if there is no possibility that you will attend, then don’t stay on the waitlist.</p>

<p>Beware that a lot of people on this forum are also waitlisted and might take opportunities such as these to try to improve their chances by decreasing the number of people on the waitlist, which doesn’t really work anyway.</p>

<p>I think my biggest worry is having to actual make a decision…I haven’t actually visited the school (which is another reason why I’m not even sure that I want to go there) and I would find out if I get in amidst my IB exams and having the UChicago decision looming over my head during the last month of high school may ruin the rest of my experience.</p>

<p>The debt thing is huge too…my parents are in massive amounts of debt due to poor money management, but both make six figure salaries, so we will only qualify for about $25k in financial aid (based on the collegeboard’s EFC calculator and financial aid that we’ve received form other schools)…so, over 4 years, our cost would be upwards of $110k…my parents have said that they can take on about $70k of this debt (and it would ALL be in debt as they would not be able to pay anything out-of-pocket right now) and I would have to take on about $40k…not to mention debt from graduate school, which I intend on going to.</p>

<p>Other than that, I guess my two biggest fears are that the “where fun comes to die” reputation will hold true and that I will be overshadowed by everyone at the school. </p>

<p>But I’m also worried that I will regret making the decision and always wonder if I could have gotten in…although I still think that this sentiment would arise from pride (the want to go to the most prestigious school) than an actual love for the school…I think that it’s fairly inevitable that Chicago will be ranked even higher next year since its acceptance rate (which is a part of USNWR’s calculations) was halved this year, but deep down I believe that it’s only my ego that’s pushing me to go to Chicago (going to a “top school”). As I said before, if Chicago had been my first choice, it would be a no-brainer, but it wasn’t. It’s a great school, but having never visited it, I have no idea whether or not I would actually fit in, leading to believe that any emotion that I have about the school is merely superficial in that it’s based on the prestige of the school</p>

<p>I’m also worried that the decision would be incredibly tough if I visited the school and really liked it (IF I get accepted…lot’s of hypotheticals haha). I’m not sure if I would just immediately turn down the offer, allowing the adcom to move to the next person on the list. I’ve heard Chicago financial aid isn’t that good, and I don’t want to have to turn down a school I actually like (IF I like it and IF I get in) because of money.</p>

<p>Right now, I’m almost certain I’m going to “pull the plug”…I think I’m gonna get a good night’s sleep and see how I feel in the morning, but every instinct right now is telling me not to. </p>

<p>Any last thoughts? Especially regarding the ego/prestige factor? Anyone think there’s any validity in that (either in my emotions or as a good reason to go to a school)?</p>

<p>Your last two posts summarized exactly what I’m feeling about Chicago’s waitlist. I’m in almost the same situation as you. I think I’m going to sleep it over and make a decision tomorrow too. I was talking to my friend at lunch today about falling in love with the idea of a school. I think the reason why I’m clinging onto Chicago is because I got rejected from my dream school and I want to reassure myself that I’m still worth something (prestige factor). Right now, I’m leaning towards taking myself off the waitlist. My hs’ graduation quote this year is “Wherever you go, go with all of your heart” - Confucius. I think it fits rather nicely in this situation. Good luck making a decision! :)</p>

<p>anagenesis–what did you end up doing? </p>

<p>I really like that quote; it really speaks to me. And I’m glad that I’m not the only person in this situation (it’s definitely very reassuring.</p>

<p>I decided to take my name off the waitlist. UGA Honors seemed like a better fit for my situation and the fact is that I will still be getting a great education, just in a different atmosphere. I decided that I didn’t need prestige to be happy or to get a great education. I can definitely go for the “Work hard, play hard” ideology that I was seaking and financially, UGA honors can’t be beat.</p>

<p>Good luck on your decisions and good luck to everyone still on the wait list, but just know that wherever you go, your happiness and the quality of education that you receive (or rather how you receive it) is, for the most part, in your own hands.</p>

<p>didnt you have to send in a reply by april 15th whether you wanted to stay on the waitlist or not?</p>

<p>Mttyler7: I took myself off the waitlist too. After having a tearful conversation with my guidance counselor, I’ve come to the conclusion that I wanted to go to Chicago for all the wrong reasons (ie mainly the prestige factor). Prestige is definitely not a good reason why you want to go to a college. UCSD is a better fit for me and I know I’ll be happy there. I’ve put Chicago behind me. It’s time to look forward. Now it’s all about sunny San Diego, California. :slight_smile: </p>

<p>Sounds like we both made the right decision for us. I hope you have a great college experience! Good luck to everyone else on the waitlist too. </p>

<p>Dontstopbelievin: When I first got my waitlist letter, I thought it said May 1st. And Chicago said on their website that they won’t be looking at the waitlist until May 4th (apparently not). When I signed back onto my Chicago account, it now says April 15th. I guess either I remembered it wrong or they changed their minds. Oh well, less work for them.</p>