This post can be closed. 
Direct quote from D, “I cannot believe total strangers took this much time to give me this detailed feedback. This is exactly what I needed to know what to do. RIP St Andrews. Thank you, Mom, for getting involved.” (I am saving this forever.)
Please note this is not a negative comment toward St Andrews on my D or my part. Anyone would be lucky to find a college home there. It’s just not the right fit for a US kid hoping for a US med school.
So thank you CC folks from my D and me! On to the search for two more “real” matches. 