<p>My sister’s ex-boyfriend is a psycho stalker. Yeah, I know… I couldn’t believe people like that actually exist. Anyway, I’ve known from the first time I met him that there was something off about him, even though my family was oblivious to it. My instinct has proven to be spot-on. When they broke up, the stalking began (he started to appear at the house uninvited, banging on the door cursing, throwing rocks at the windows, etc.). At first, my sister was reluctant to get the police involved, but I was fearless in calling the police, so one day, I did, and he took off. Months later, he hasn’t stopped harassing my sister (calling the housephone, cellphone leaving threatening messages). Recently, my sister filed a restraining order against him, but now, he thinks my mother is behind his decision to do so and is now making threatening remarks about her. There’s a possibility that he’s after me too. What should we do?? The guy is especially angry that his career is basically ruined (since my sister will not drop the case). We have no guilt because we gave him months to correct himself (taking into consideration his career advancement), yet he didn’t. We’re worried he might retaliate. The scary thing is that he’s experienced at handling guns(his job requires this skill) and that he’s physically stronger than any of us.</p>
<p>and I’d be definitely getting restraining orders.</p>
<p>By the way, definitely look into a restraining order for her. There is no reason why a psycho like that should be allowed to get anywhere close to you guys. It is unfortunate that things work out that way sometimes. Hope the situation settles down a bit and that guy lays off.</p>
<p>correction to my original post: </p>
<p>“he thinks my mother is behind his decision to do so”</p>
<p>“…behind HER decision…”</p>
<p>Thanks everyone for your support. This is frightening.</p>
<p>'tisthetruth,
coming from a parent, please feel free to post this kind of thing on the parent cafe. You will actually receive mature, useful advice.</p>
<p>Yes, file the order, ASAP. See if that can include getting a patrol car to watch the house. Also, have you cell phone numbers and house phone number changed.</p>