<p>“ickiness”??? yikes - </p>
<p>We have always told the kids that sex should be fun and lovely, only with both consenting, and really rather with someone they know well&long enough to feel attracted on multiple fronts that just sex.
I don’t know and didn’t need to know if they were having sex in her bedroom right then and there - I know D told me she was ready for it and wanted birth control - which I had her go to the gynecologyst for - did advice to use the double protection method. We are lucky to have far removed bedrooms. Never met him at breakfast.<br>
Now she’s out of the house, university in another town, boyfriend sleeps over - but we do not really get to meet him.</p>
<p>but never icky - not really healthy to consider sex icky and teach that to your children -</p>