<p>Excellent observations B&P. It is normal however for a person’s defensive nature to kick in when they are challenged and doesn’t have a way of legitimately responding. If you bring up personal questions and they can’t respond satisfactorily, then the natural response is to say things like; “We need to get beyond this and back on the issues”; or “I already answered that and won’t talk about it anymore”; or “That’s a personal matter and has no bearing here being discussed”. These are all normal and common responses by a candidate and their supporters.</p>
<p>The problem is; there are MANY voters/citizens who believe that there is no such thing as a “Personal Matter” when it comes to public servants. There are those that believe that many of this questions and topics deal with personal issues that reflect a candidate’s personality, character, integrity, etc… Many believe that this is just as important of traits when choosing a public servant as is experience, the economy, foreign affairs, etc… And saying you won’t talk about something any more or do more debates will always negatively affect the candidate with some voters.</p>
<p>Obama needs to learn that EVERYTHING and EVERYONE he has done, associated with, said, condoned, participated in, etc… in the senate, in college, in his personal life, etc… ARE ALL PART OF THE ISSUES. As a public servant, everything you say or do in your life is part of determining your character and whether or not the voters respect that character.</p>
<p>Sorry Obama, but for you to be the one that tries and determines what I SHOULD and SHOULDN’T hear and know about you is a total turn off. Yes, I will admit that in the last 3 months, Obama’s appeal to me has gone more and more into the toilet. I use to support him over Clinton. I no longer do that. I use to hold either democrat somewhat equally with McCain and looked forward to the general election debates. Most importantly, I felt comfortable enough that if any of the 3 were elected, I would feel comfortable with the direction of the country. Yes, each are totally opposite in certain issues with each other, but I found enough with each candidate that I did like. Now; unless Obama does some major turnaround, he is no longer an option for me. And the more he talks, the more he turns me off. Now, do I still hold Clinton and McCain in equal comfortable standings? To a point. I am not 100% positive which direction I would go if it was Clinton VS McCain. But I do know that as of today, if it was Obama VS McCain, McCain wins hands down. Obama’s declaration of “CHANGE” in the beginning of his campaign was very compelling and inspirational. Since then, I am not convinced he can accomplish such change, nor if he even knows HOW he would accomplish such change. He’s way too vague for me. In his answers, in his positions, in his voting record, etc… Sorry, but if wins the democratic nomination, McCain gets my vote.</p>