<p>In our extended family, there are twins who both played the same sport, very well, and were quite different in many ways, and very competitive with each other. Their parents made a point of encouraging them to go to separate (rival) schools – in NE, about 90 minutes apart. They both became star athletes at their chosen schools and ended up being recruited by the same university. And by the time they got to college, according to their parents, their relationship had evolved into one much closer and more meaningful than just always trying to best one another.</p>