fauxmaven, I hope you are wrong, too. I’m so sorry that you have cause for concern. It is so difficult to watch a child of any age struggle. Sending good thoughts your way.
@fauxmaven : Why are you nervous? Has he done something?
Sending positive thoughts your way. Hoping your mom-hunch is wrong, if that’s what it is.
He’s 36, but you never stop being a mom…hugs to you. Hope you are wrong on your hunch.
What’s happened to make you sense something is up? Warm hugs to you. As @momofthreeboys says, you’re always a mom no matter your child’s age…
fauxmaven, Dh’s brother faced similar challenges as your son when he was almost the same age. Years later, he is in his 50’s with a stable job, great marriage with wonderful children. MIL still worries…but that’s because she’s a mom. 
FM, I’m thinking about you. Hugs.
Good thought to you FM. Does he have a sponsor?
No sponsor. We are having a family reunion on the east coast, and we offered to pay for his air ticket. He said he would pay for it himself, if he decides to come. While I am impressed he is offering to pay for the ticket, I am worried where the money is coming from. Hope I am wrong!
@fauxmaven, maybe he doesn’t want to I pose/accept your generosity, but doesn’t have the money either, so he just won’t come? I hope your worries are unnecessary.